5 Tips For Single Man To Start New Social Life

When you’re single again, there’s a world of opportunity open to you. While there’s always a sense of loss, you know that good, even great, things are on the horizon. It’s time for you to get out there and start making things happen for you. That’s why I wrote down some dating advice for the newly single man to help you jumpstart your all new social life.

* Keep Positive

Positivity attracts. What’s more, it’s good for you. Sometimes you’ll be bummed. These are the times you most need to get out, keep moving and stay positive. A quick tip: Smiling and laughing makes you feel better by releasing chemicals in your brain. Before you head out, stand in the mirror and test your smile while you listen to some good music to get your energy state up. This will help you to prime the pump before you head out for a night of revelry.

* Get Out

If you don’t bet, you can’t win. Similarly, if you don’t get out you can’t be social. Just getting out is the single biggest piece of advice I have for newly single men. Call up the boys and have a time whenever you have the time. Going out in groups makes you look like people who know people — always an attractive quality for women. When you and your crew come in strong, high fiving each other, beaming big smiles, people notice. Check out places you were always curious about and hit them up. Test your boundaries a little by going places you thought you’d never go to. You’ll grow as a social animal.

* Focus on the Future

It’s never a good idea to talk about your ex or your previous relationship. I don’t just mean that it’s bad form, I mean that it’s bad for you. With all the great things in your future, there’s no reason for you to dwell on the past. Instead, concentrate on coming up with killer date ideas for all the women you’re going to be meeting. It’s going to have you in much better spirits than the opposite and besides, the past is behind you. The future is what lies ahead.

* Set Personal Goals

Goals are good to have. They are a way to measure progress. They also act as a form of encouragement. They give you something to strive toward, while also providing you with a yardstick to measure your success. When you meet a goal, you feel on top of the world.

* Be confident

Across the board, confidence is attractive – enthusiasm will make you shine. If you’re a little shy, practice beforehand by talking to people you don’t know. Or, whilst on the date, pick a subject that you’re enthusiastic about, such as a hobby. She will sense your confidence as you talk passionately about it. Many people may also be shy about their appearance. You may not be 6ft tall with a six-pack, but it’s more attractive to a woman to show that you’re comfortable in your own skin and happy being you.