If he hurts your feelings

There are situations in relationships that are uncomfortable and unpleasant. There are moments when two people interact and a rift between the two occurs because what one says, hurts deep inside the other. Sometimes, is possible to hurt the feelings of another person, without any intention. On the other hand, arrogance, anger & complex of inferiority can also be very destructive in relationships. Here, are some keys to act in a constructive way if your guy, ever hurts your feelings.

Express assertively, how you have felt

Tell the other person what have upset you. Express your message with love and not in a reproachful tone because it is easier to inspire empathy in the listener. The sooner you face this step, the better.

Relieve yourself with someone of maximum confidence

Tell the person what happened because the love of someone close comforting and very healthy to take care of you in a moment of weakness.

Avoid turning this circumstance in something absolute

Value the relationship you have with that person, with all the good times shared and everything that brings you. Also, think about the virtues of the other and not only on his flaws. When someone has hurt our feelings, it costs us to assess the totality of a love relationship or friendship.

Relativize: No body is perfect

We all make mistakes and say incorrect things certain times. It I important to remember this point when we feel hurt by someone.

Avoid stimulating a broken record

Do not monopolize the conversation talking about this issue because then you can make a mountain out of a molehill.

Take a walk to disconnect

When you get back home, you will feel much better about yourself. Talk Fondly to yourself at an emotional level.