Learning how to look sexy is something that many women puzzle over. ´Sexy´ does not mean cheap, tawdry or obscene. Sexy means attractive, lovely and pleasurable. It does not have to cater to lust; it may be sensual without being sexual. If you make this simple distinction you are well on your way to maximizing your sexy potential.
Hygiene and grooming are top requirements
There is no getting around the fact that a clean and put-together appearance is attractive. A neat, healthy-looking mane of hair, clear skin, clean teeth, well-kept nails and clean clothes and footwear present an overall package that makes a good impression.
Enhance your best feature
Whether it is a pretty face, a happy laugh, well-toned legs or a nice behind, emphasize what you have got. Do so, not in an in your face kind of way, but subtly enough to get a foot in the door, so to speak; your personality will then open the door the rest of the way. Any little detail that can attract and sustain attention should be utilized. This includes pretty makeup (learn how to put it on); eye catching accessories; bold color (If it suits your personality); sexy, subtle (but not overpowering) scent; high heels.
Wear Appropriate Clothes
Sexy, often brings cleavage bare skin and sheer fabric readily to mind. But, usually, laying it all bare is counterproductive. When you bare too much people get an impression of sluttiness, which is never sexy. Clothes that cling to curves rather than bared and plunging necklines are your best bet. It is always better to keep an air of mystery, peeling off layers, whether of clothes or of information, is sexy as it engages all the senses and involves the excitement of discovery.
Be Yourself, more specifically, the positive, friendly, interested side of you
We are all multi-dimensional persons. We have our bad sides and good sides. But there is no need to unleash our dark sides onto the world. There is a proper place for that. When you want to be sexy, it is time to show your positive side.