If you have been active in the dating scene for any amount of time, you know it isn’t all rainbows and unicorns. Dating is hard work. And now, with the social distancing guidelines, dating has become harder than ever. But it is possible to figure out how to date while social distancing!
You wonder, how are you supposed to date when you can’t come in contact with someone? How are you supposed to gauge your chemistry if you can’t touch or kiss or even make eye contact?
Well, with the massive growth in technology over the last decade and a bit, we’ve been prepared for this situation for ages.
# Avoid too much virus talk
We all know that the Coronavirus has taken over and affected everyone. But, if you focus on it and the way it’s being handled too much, it could really put a damper on things.
Dating should be exciting and positive. Enjoy this time! Use it as more of an escape from the worry and anxiety of the unknown.
# Lean on memes
Memes are one of the best inventions of the last few years. They bring joy to everyday life. Whether you’re a solid texter or not, memes can boost your humor game.
You don’t want to go overboard, but memes will always add to your conversation. You could even create a meme challenge. Send each other the dankest memes you’ve seen, the funniest, the most relatable, and go from there.
# Share your TV and movie favoritesSomething we bond over more than art or literature nowadays is TV and movies. And with all of us being home with time to kill, we have plenty of things to watch.
Share your favorite shows. See what you’ve both watched. Try something the other recommends. You can even watch a movie you both haven’t seen at the same time. Then share your reactions. Think of it as a social distancing movie date.
# Plan a video chat dateEven before social distancing went into effect I have always been a huge advocate of video chatting before meeting someone online. It is not only safer but can give you an idea of what your chemistry might be like in person.
Instead of just deciding to video chat out of the blue, actually plan a date. Both eat spaghetti or have coffee or breakfast together via video chat so it feels like you both put in some effort. Get out of your sweats, shower, and get ready like you would for a real date. This will keep the excitement going strong.
# Teach each other somethingA great way to create a bond with someone new in your life is by teaching them something and vice versa. Now, you obviously can’t do this in person. Use it as a way to get to know each other virtually.
You can teach each other how to properly fold a fitted sheet, change a tire, or even cook a meal via video chat. Having patience and a sense of humor with these things in addition to the rockiness of video chat service shows how real life might be together.
# Try something new togetherObviously, you can’t go rock climbing together, but you can both order a food you’ve never tried and eat together. You can try a craft together or yoga.
I know it might seem silly but the experience of trying something new together, even virtually, can really bring you closer together.