You’ve followed the steps above and you’ve got to the point where you’re going to do the asking. You’re going to ask her for a date. Scary, right? Well, yes, but remember that if she says ‘no’ or she isn’t that keen, don’t take it to heart. If this girl doesn’t want to go on a date with you, there are countless others who will. However, let’s hope that she says ‘yes’ and you can start planning.
If you’re not sure how to do the actual asking, let’s look at 10 easy messages you can can send which get to the heart of the question in a fun and quirky way. Everyone loves fun and quirky, right?
# A new Thai restaurant has opened in town, do you fancy coming with me to try it? – It might also be an idea to figure out what her favorite type of food is beforehand and suggest that place instead
# The sun is shining, let’s go for lunch and have a real conversation# “I’m so pleased your interview went well, let me take you out for dinner to celebrate” – Obviously, it doesn’t have to be an interview, but anything that she’s been talking to you about that went well
# “You, me, coffee, what do you say?”# “I’m very bad at dancing, do you want to come laugh at me this weekend in the club?”
# “Let’s take this conversation past texting, what time shall I pick you up on Friday?”
# “So, when you going to take me out?” – Cheeky, but it will get a reaction!
# “I’ve been trying to pluck up the courage to ask you out. Fancy making it easier on me?”
# “I challenge you to a competition – two dates, two restaurants, let’s see who picks the best one”
# “There’s a carnival in the park this weekend, I’m scared of fast rides, do you want to hold my hand?”