It’s nice to meet someone with whom you can just be friends, right? He shares your interests, he’s fun to be around, and you just have this chemistry that makes it so easy to be friends with each other. But could there be something more on his mind? What are the signs your friend wants to have sex with you?
All your other guy friends seem to only befriend you long enough to get you in bed with them. With him, things are different. He’s different. You think to yourself, “With a friend like him, who needs a boyfriend?”
Well, sorry to burst your bubble, but as the infamously wise Harry of “When Harry Met Sally” says, “Men and women can’t be friends, because the sex part always gets in the way.”
It may not be today, and it may not be tonight. But somewhere along the way, the thought of you in bed will come creeping into his head, and he’ll like the idea so much that he’ll do everything to make it happen.
# Keys to his place
Has he been telling you that you can crash at his place anytime, and you may as well just have the keys to his place. In fact, you know where he keeps his spare keys, as he tells you, “Just in case.”
He says he’s concerned about your safety and he doesn’t want you to ever go home alone and in the middle of the night. He thinks it’s better if you spend the night at his place, but you should wonder if he would really just let you sleep on the couch.
# LingerieRemember when you guys were hanging out at the mall and you passed by a lingerie store and he joked about how those lacey bras in the window would look good on you?
He may have said this jokingly, but the truth is, he definitely thinks about you in your lingerie.
# Feely friendYou thought chivalry was dead, but your friend proves you wrong. He helps you out of the car, holds you at the small of your back to lead you through doors, kisses your cheeks when you see each other, and hugs you.
He’s too touchy-feely and when he hugs you, you feel him lingering and can’t help but wonder if he’s making out with you… using his arms.
# Eyes on youMore specifically, your boobs. Or your butt. Or all of your curves.
The thing is, when you talk to him, you sometimes catch him looking at more than just your eyes or your face. You notice a slight glance at your face, but most of the time, he lustingly looks at your humps. This is a clear sign that your friend wants to have sex with you.
# Nights outHe asks you to hang out at night more than any other time. Since you’ve met him, you’ve been going out to dinner.
When you ask him to have lunch, instead, he tells you he’s unavailable or he convinces you to move it to dinner, so he has a better chance of sleeping with you.
# Drinking buddiesYes, you are great drinking buddies, and he makes you feel like you can get drunk because, whatever happens, he’s got your back.
In fact, you never need to ask for another round, because he’s so eager to buy you one after the other, after the other so he can get you on your back!
# Alone timeYou have mutual friends, but most of the time, you find yourself hanging out with only him. He calls you to ask if you want to meet “them” at your favorite watering hole, only to find him alone, after all. The bottom line is: he does everything to get you to hang out with him alone.