10 Ways To Make Your Husband Feel Happy

Every marriage is different and so is every couple. But, there is one thing that is common in every marriage and that is love. If it wasn’t for love, then no relationship would have survived the test of time. Husband and wife are the two strong pillars of this institution called marriage. Both of you are responsible for each other’s well being. If your husband is trying his best to keep you happy, then it is your responsibility to appreciate him for that.

Some wives have a preconceived notion that they can only make their husband happy sexually. But that is not the only thing they can do. Your husband will feel happy if you take note of his efforts. You can also make him feel special by surprising him with gifts. You know what, husband and wife are like the two wheels of a bike. Here, the bike is like marriage. Flat tires won’t take you too far, so if you want your marriage rolling smoothly, then take care of the tires.

It is a good idea to keep problems at bay by keeping your husband happy. Don't wait for your relationship to hit rock bottom before taking action. After all, it is best to act early. He would simply love the idea of spicing things up in the bed, but there are other ways to make him happy as well. No, your husband doesn’t always think about getting intimate in bed, he has other expectations as well. Why do you think that only you have the right to expect things from your husband? Why not the other way around? Next time, when there is a big fight between you and your husband, don’t wait for his apology. For a change, send him a bouquet of flower with a sorry card. This one small step will bring in a huge difference and you will see how happy your husband is due to this gesture. Here are 10 different love hacks to spice up things and make your husband really happy and content with his life.

# Make your husband enjoy things on his own

This is one golden rule that you should follow to keep your husband happy regardless of the length of your marriage. Plan a surprise trip for your husband with his close friends and see him grin from ear to ear. Everybody needs some space and some ‘me’ time where they can do whatever they feel like and whatever makes them happy. If you let your husband enjoy that time without making him feel guilty, then he will greatly appreciate it. This could be your way of letting your love know that you care for him and that you want to see him happy.

# Join him in his activities if he asks you

You know there are couples who have fallen for each other all over again by taking part in each other’s activities. If he loves paragliding and he wants you to join, then give in to his idea even if you are scared to death. You will see him taking care of you just like the way he did when you started dating each other. His touch and care are going to win you over. In case, you are petrified to jump off the cliff, then you can at least stand in there when he takes the plunge and support him. Motivate him and support him when he is trying out different venture. It is easy to complain, but hard to value what you have. So this time around, tread the hard path and ditch the easy one to make your husband happy.

# Make your foodie husband happy

If your husband is a big foodie, then why not try to make his favorite restaurant dishes at home? It will be the best surprise of his life. Prepare a complete meal, including starters and dessert. His eyes will be wide open when he sees the spread on the dining table. Don’t expect him to shower you with compliments right away. It would take some time to soak in the fact that you have put in so much effort to cook him all his favorite dishes. Believe me, even if he doesn’t say it in words, his expression will make you understand how touched he is by your gesture. His friends will be jealous that he has an amazing wife like you.

# PDA with your husband is allowed

Is there any rule that PDA is only for unmarried couples? Why can’t you indulge in some PDA with your husband? Though he would love it, he might not be the first one to initiate because he is scared of offending you. Just forget that you have been married to him for a decade. Imagine this is your first or second date and you are totally into him. Do whatever you feel like! At first, he might feel embarrassed, but slowly he will also start to give in.

# Appreciate your husband’s little efforts

Appreciate his efforts and acknowledge it by saying ‘Thank you’. You can either thank him in person or you can send a small note with a gift to his workplace in order to surprise him. Another way to thank him and letting him know how you feel is through text. Just pick up your cellphone and type in a heartfelt message and send it to him. You must be thinking that you are no teenager to do all these silly things. You are wrong my dear. No matter how old you grow, it is these kinds of small yet significant things that make a huge difference in life.

# Compliments make him happy

He must have heard thousands of compliments, but the one that you said will be the most special and cherished one for your husband. If he is good in bed, then appreciate him for that. It will give him a huge boost that he is able to satisfy you sexually. If you can blame him for something wrong, then why not compliment him for something he is good at? There should be a harmony between a complaint and an appreciation. It should go hand in hand to make your husband happy all the time. Make him feel the love that you have for him, both sexually and emotionally.

# Express your love for him

Love is the most beautiful emotion that one can have for the other. So, why not share it with that special person? Why should you hide it in your closet? Yes, it is an expensive gift that you can give to someone special only. Let your husband know how much you love him and care for him. Do you remember how you expressed your feelings for the first time? Recreate the same magic by baring your heart all over again.

# Don’t drag the conflict

If you are having a conflict, then it is not easy to understand your love’s point of view. In the heat of the moment don’t blurt out something wrong that you will regret later. If you witness that the conflict is getting murkier then step back and take some time to think before you speak again. At that point of time, you won’t be able to see the other side of the coin, but that doesn’t mean the other side doesn’t exist. Couples who have been able to control their emotions or hold back their anger are the ones enjoying a blissful marital life. You will have to train yourselves to do that to avoid getting into serious conflicts. Anger destroys everything because when you are angry you shut your brain and open your mouth. You don’t realize how venomous your words are until the damage has been done. So, the next time you see a conflict cropping up, try resolving it right away with communication and understanding.

# Touch can rekindle the love

Hold his hand, stroke him gently or gently rub his shoulders. You should often indulge in these kinds of things. It will make you feel closer to your husband and your husband will also feel good about it. As times passes by, we tend to forget how a simple holding of hands used to create magic. Be spontaneous in whatever you do. If you feel like holding his hands, then go ahead and do it without thinking much. He is your husband, after all, then why are you shying away from holding his hands? Even if you and your husband are sexually active, these innocent and harmless touches will still make him very happy. Sometimes, it is so much fun to make other couples jealous by showing off the bond that you and your partner share.

# Accept each other's differences

You both are quite different from each other, so it is just normal that both of you will have different views on the same topic. Whenever he is explaining his point of view and justifying his thoughts, do you find yourself cutting him short to impose your thoughts? This is how you can get into conflicts. But not all conflicts are destructive. Having different opinions is not bad. You just need to respect each other's point of view. If you and your husband are always conflicting because of incompatibility, then it is a sign that your relationship is hitting the rough patches. It can be destructive to your relationship. But, on the other hand, if it is due to the difference of personality, then it will help you learn new things about each other. Are you jealous of your husband's cool nature? Try to incorporate that in your personality as well. Appreciate each other's qualities rather than concentrating on the differences. Conflicts will help you discover an unknown side of your love. It will actually help you grow in your relationship.