Do you get butterflies in your tummy every time you meet your crush? You stammer, you blush, and your mind freezes out literally. You can think of nothing to talk about and in the end, you just blame yourself for being so silly. You may feel bad about wasting an opportunity to talk about something impressive with your crush. Well, it won't happen anymore! Here are some 11 amazing and interesting topics that you can bring up while talking to your crush. Not only would he be impressed by your knowledge and the way you communicate, it would make him be interested in talking to you more and more. Speech is often the second thing one notices about a person, after their looks.
You might get attracted to a woman by her looks, but if she lets out garbage the moment she opens her mouth, her beauty is of no use to you! Often you might find a person very attractive but when you two start communicating, you lose interest because of the way he thinks or talks. Sometimes the greatest relationships are built on the basis of communication. Looks hardly matter in that case if you are totally besotted by the way the person thinks and talks. Next time, keep yourself prepared with these interesting topics before you meet your crush:
# Talk about their hobbiesTo know each other better, often hobbies are a safe subject to begin with. You can get to know your crush deeper and find out interesting things about him. Some examples are if he is into sports, music, reading, cooking and other such hobbies. Maybe you have common hobbies and can do fun things together!
# Discuss life goalsA deep subject, this kind of discussion should come in much later, preferably after you have known your crush for some time. Discussing life goals gives you an idea about how focused your girl or guy is in life. Maybe you can even take some inspiration from them.
# Talk about your favorite movies and actorsThis is a very safe topic and often one of the few initial topics to talk about with your girl or guy. Discuss movies that were just released, and your favorite movies and actors. You will know if your crush likes romantic movies or thrilling action movies. Perhaps you could invite your crush over for a fun night of watching his or her favorite movie together. She will be impressed if you remember such small details about her.
# Talk about your little secretsThis will bring your guy closer to you. When you discuss with him some interesting, naughty secrets of yours, he will not only feel that you trust in him but he might even swear to be your confidant forever. Sharing dirty little secrets deepens your bond and enables you to become closer to one another.
# Discuss common friendsDiscussing common friends can be one of the best ways to start a conversation with someone, especially if you don't know him or her very well. You too could develop a deeper bond discussing some annoying, funny, or interesting things about your common friends.
# Tell them about your favorite book and authorMaybe you both turned out to be book lovers and can spend all your time dating in the library! Let him know what kind of books you like to read, as well as what kind he prefers. This will also tell you a lot about his or her character. For example, liking Robin Cook makes him or her crazy about science fiction, while a preference for Danielle Steel obviously means your crush is a family person.
# Favorite hangout jointFind out about each other's usual hangout spots. Perhaps, you could take your crush next time to his or her favorite place. It could also tell you about the kind of food your crush likes and whether you two have common taste in food. She might love Chinese and you might be a burger fan. Knowing these small details about each other only makes the relationship stronger.
# Favorite travel destinationFind out where your crush has travelled to, and what's his or her most loved travel destinations. This is quite an interesting discussion, especially if you both love travelling. You will also find out about the ways she sees the world. Conversations about travel can speak volumes about a person's lifestyle. You'll learn whether they prefer to be extravagant, or are budget travelers, beach lovers, hill station lovers or wild life enthusiasts.
# Talk about yourself and your familyConversations on these topics can sometimes go on for hours. Perhaps your crush is a family person and may love to talk about his mom's favorite recipes or her naughty little brother's tantrums. You can join in with your own family stories. An hour or two would pass as you discuss your beloved families, and you might not even notice. Later on, you can send each other pics of your family over text too.
# Discuss topics which your crush finds interesting like sports or politicsMaybe a little bit of knowledge on this beforehand from common friends or social media could help you out. Find out whether your crush loves sports or politics. Starting a conversation on your crush's favorite topic would have your guy all ears to what you have to say. With a little luck, you might end up talking for hours.
# Talk about things that irritate youThis kind of topic can be discussed a little later on, after you have known each other for some time. Your crush will know you better as a person if you tell him how bad you feel for wounded animals or abandoned children. It would add some depth to your persona and perhaps your crush will be really impressed by your interesting and deep thoughts.