The fear of being rejected is the biggest reason a guy never opens up to his crush. Your guy might be into you, but might be afraid of expressing his feelings for you. Not all guys are comfortable letting their loved ones know that they are adored. It becomes your job to decode his feelings for you. It is always confusing when it comes to figuring out whether he really likes you or is just being nice to you. There are some signs that will clear up the air and confirm that he really likes you. There is always a limitation for being nice. It really takes a lot of love and affection and that is the only way to decode his feelings for you and learn that he is not just being nice. Here are 11 clear signs that he is really into you and proves that he is not just being nice.
# Pays attention to his looksWhen a guy is really into you, his looks will matter a lot to him. Your crush will want to impress you with his killer looks. He will try to seduce you by trying to flaunt his best features to amaze you. He would always be classy when he is around you to grab your attention. Guys who try to be nice will never care to impress you. So, this is one of the sure subtle signs that tell you he is really into you and not just being nice to you.
# Initiating conversation is one of the signs that he is into youWhen it comes to making calls or texting he will not wait for any of the universal rules or signs. He would rather call or text you immediately even if you are at work. He will let you know that you are being missed and that he had a great day with you. You will notice that he will never wait for you to start a conversation; rather, he will have endless conversation starters that will keep you engaged. Even while texting you will find his chats are never-ending. This is one of the signs that he likes you.
# Will make plans to see you
When your guy is into you, he will make plans to meet you either as a group or alone. Even if it is a last minute birthday party invitation you will find him absolutely present just to see you. Even when at work all his coffee breaks he would want to spend time with you or take a break with you as you have completely bewitched his mind and soul. This is a clear-cut sign that tells you he is really into you.
# His body languageA major giveaway and one of the signs that screams he likes you is his body language. When a guy likes you, he unknowingly gives you some hard to miss signs that are easy to read. Note his eyes and his gaze: they will always revolve around you. You might also notice that he is always angled towards you, even when at a distance. He will lean towards you, making you realize that he is into you. This is one of the major signs that says he is really into you and that he is not afraid to hide it from you.
# Never gives up on youYour guy will be persistent even when he knows that there is no chance for him. He will never give up on you but try and try till he gets rejected if you have no feelings for him. You will make every effort to try and impress you and get you to like him. It is one of the most obvious signs that he is interested in you.
# Listening to you is one of the signs he is into youWhen a guy really likes you, he will listen to all your stories and remember them. Even a tiniest little details don't get left out. He will be a good, active listener even if you are distracted. You will be always his priority and he will make sure that you realize that you are being heard. If you think your guy is just being nice, he will definitely not be able to remember all the small details. But when he does, it's one of the signs that he is really into you but a little afraid to let you know.
# Being open with you is among the signs he likes youWhen a guy really likes you he will open up to you. He will be able to discuss his passions, goals, and other interests. It is not easy for guys to open up but when he does it really means that he trusts you. He will want you to be aware of his fears, excitement, and his anger. This is one of the really good signs that says he is truly into you.
# Prioritizing your needs is one of the best signsIf your guy takes into account your needs as his priority and makes sure you're satisfied, chances are he is into you. You will notice that he will make a considerable effort to make your life easier and that is a sure way to tell he is really into you.
# You are a part of his lifeYou are always a part of his life. His friends and family are your friends too. You will even know his friends at work. You will slowly realize that nothing ever happens in his life without your knowledge and that you are becoming a part of his life. This is among the crystal clear signs that tells you he is really into you and not just being nice.
# He sees a future with youWhen your guy is sincerely into you he will see a future for you both together. His small talk will always include you in his future. This really means he wants to stick around you and he sees a life with you. This is one of the sweetest signs and clearly means he is into you.
# Complimenting you is one of many clear signsYou will notice that your guy will be full of genuine compliments when he is into you. He will have eyes of admiration for you and appreciate you for your looks or for just being awesome. You will find him not afraid to compliment you through texting. Considerate actions and signs like this show that he is really into you.