It is not easy to understand your boyfriend or for that matter your husband completely. Your relationship is the journey where both of you are traveling towards your destination. As days are passing by, you fathom your partner a little bit better than before. Everything depends on you now, if you want to make your journey interesting and thrilling, then keep the romance alive by surprising him or by making him feel wanted. Mostly, the married couples have this habit of taking each other for granted and they assume that their partner knows how important they are.
Even if your boyfriend or husband know that you love him, what’s wrong with expressing it in different ways! Sometimes, when all of a sudden your boyfriend receives a cute text in the middle of the day from you, he will cherish the moment and this simple act of yours will put a broad smile on his face. You don’t have to say “I Love you” to express your love. You can send a text saying you miss him terribly and you can’t wait to meet him again. All of a sudden when he will receive this cute text after a long time, he will definitely enjoy every bit of attention that you are showering on him. These were the things that we used to enjoy when we were dating, right? Then after marriage why did we stop sending these cute messages? It’s okay if your husband is not that romantic type. You can be the one who can rekindle your love by sprinkling a little bit of magic of yours. Here are 11ways of expressing your love without saying a word.
# Cook what your boyfriend loves to eatIt is the age-old trick to reach the man’s heart and if you are a good cook, then why you don’t use it to your benefit. Cook him something special that he simply cannot resist. It will show that you took out the time to prepare him his favorite dish. That means you were thinking about him all throughout the day and who wouldn’t like the fact that someone is taking so much of an effort just to please them. Your man will love this gesture and will appreciate your effort and the hidden love that you served him wrapped around in the food.
# Pen down your thoughts for your loveIf you are not good with words, then also it’s ok. What matters the most is your feelings towards your boyfriend, so it really doesn’t matter if you are not able to pen down the thoughts like a poet. As long as you can make sense out of words it is ok. Your feelings are important and writing love letters can never go out of fashion. Try it once and you will be surprised to see how your boyfriend reacts to it. He will be touched by your gesture and not just that he will know how much you love him. You can send him a text as well, but letters are the most romantic way of expressing your love for him. You can prove your love through this cute act. It is a time-consuming affair and if you are taking that much time out for your boyfriend, then you are pretty serious about him or else why would you waste even a single second on someone?
# Arrange a playlist of songs he loves
You have an idea about the songs he prefers to listen when he is alone or when he is hitting the gym or maybe when he is traveling. Just prepare a playlist for him beforehand and hand it over to him. Don’t forget to include some of your favorites as well that you think he will also love. Music has the power to convey your love without you mincing out the words.
# DIY gift for your boyfriendAre you a creative person? Then, why not use your creativity in preparing something for your boyfriend? You can bring him expensive gifts, but nothing can beat the pleasure of creating something with your own hands. You can keep an eye on what your boyfriend wants. Like if he is misplacing his important documents every now and then, then you can prepare a personalized organizer for him, or if he is looking for a place to keep his glasses, then carve out a wooden glass holder and gift it to him. He will understand that you have a complete knowledge of what is happening in his life and what he wants and when. You are taking a note of every minute detail of his life and are making his life easier. This proves how much you love your boyfriend.
# Compliment your boyfriend on his looks
Who wouldn’t love to hear compliments on his looks? If someone says that they don’t like it when someone is complimenting on their looks, then they are lying. So, this universal truth applies to your boyfriend as well. Appreciate his dressing sense and his looks genuinely. If a particular color makes him look good and cute, then let him know that. You can also keep staring at him when he is dressing up. Remember, to look away when he catches you staring at him. This flirty eye contact will make him grin and he will understand that you still long for him. When he is all done, then let him know that he is really looking very handsome. You will see how your man blushes and throws a cute smile at you.
# Put your arms acrossYes, he will ask you about what’s wrong with you and why are you doing this all of a sudden, if you are doing this for the first time. Don’t go by his question, his heart is jumping with joy, so just let it be.
# Let your boyfriend indulge in something he lovesSo, you know that he loves his junk food more than he loves you, but you are not allowing him to eat it. Let him enjoy his meal one day while you join him too. He will be surprised and excited, both at the same time.
# Point out your boyfriend’s qualities
Once in a while, it is important that you let your boyfriend know why you fell for him for the very first time. Guys like to know why you find them desirable. Just let them know that they have some hidden qualities that don’t come across when he is meeting someone for the first time. But, as you started knowing him up, close, and personal you knew that though he always maintains a tough exterior, he is an owner of a soft and kind heart. He is gullible, so it is important for him to put up a mask so that others don’t penetrate deep into his soul right away. These kinds of words about his personality will be appreciated by him because he will understand that you are able to figure him out correctly. It is not about complimenting him on how he looks. It is about how he is as a human being.
# Be a fun version of yourselfIf you are a nagging and whining type, then ditch your avatar for a day and become a fun loving, chilled out kind of a person. Your boyfriend will be shocked to see this transformation for the first time, but slowly he will start enjoying your cute acts. Sometimes, it is important that you know how to take things slowly and accept life as it comes, rather than being a control freak and ruining everything. You can’t even imagine how happy your boyfriend will be when he comes across your hidden personality. Once in a while, it is good to shock your boyfriend pleasantly. He will know that you are doing all these for him only. He already knows how much you love him, but changing completely for him, even if it is for a day, needs a strong gut and immense love for the person.
# You boyfriend enjoys while you brag about himYou can scold him and shout at him for being a nerd or a jerk, but when you are with others, just brag about him. Let the world know that you have the best man by your side. While bragging about him, make sure that your words are reaching his ears as well. The whole idea is to make him feel important, so if he doesn’t listen to all the good things you say about him in front of others, then no use of saying it at all.
# Under the table love activitiesHaven’t you played footsies yet? Then what are you waiting for? Give him a taste of something that he is been missing all these days. There is always a first time and no matter how long you have been married or been together, there is no shying away from the fact that footsies are always welcomed. This is highly effective and you will understand its power by the twinkle in his eyes when you do it for the first time or for the hundredth time. He will look at you with the same astonishment in his eyes