It’s always exciting to meet new people, especially hot girls that you either want to date or maybe even marry some day! *Okay, let’s not get ahead of ourselves with the marriage thing quite yet, because you just met her* But you know you like her, and you don’t want to blow it. Not every guy is good at making conversation with a girl he likes, so we’re here to help you with the perfect questions to ask a girl you just met.
Firstly, as soon as you meet a great girl, chances are, you’d be drawn to her as soon as you see her. But is she the one?
Appearances can be deceptive, especially if you’re looking to get to know her better. Sometimes, you may think she’s the one. Only to find out a few months down the lane that both of you have absolutely nothing in common. Or worse, she’s just a very mean person who’s a complete wrong fit in your life!
# Where are you from? Simple, direct, and mostly just a ritual when you first meet someone.
# What do you do for a living? This will let you know a lot about her passions and what she wants to contribute to the world.
# How’s your week been going so far? Is she happy with her life so far? Does she see an empty void that needs filling? And overall, is she a happy person? This simple question will reveal all of this for you.
# What do you love about your job? Many people hate their job and love to complain. So is she positive or negative about it?
# Do you consider yourself an introvert or extrovert? If you’re a raging party animal/extrovert and she’s a shy book work, yeah, that might not work.
# What’s your dream? Does she even have dreams? Hopefully she does.
# What’s your favorite movie? Do both of you like the same genre? This is a casual but very important question to ask a girl you just met because it reveals the kind of movies she likes. And usually, the kind of movies we like, play a very big part in the kind of life we choose to lead.
# Do you have any siblings? This might give you some insight into her personality if you can find out where she is in the birth order.
# Are you close to your parents? It might be a red flag if she’s not close to them, although the reasons why can vary wildly.
# Which is your favorite holiday destination? Is she adventurous or someone who loves luxury? Is she pretentious? A world traveller? A social media influencer wannabe? Or is she a homebody who prefers the cozy indoors? A simple question to ask a girl you just met, but with very revealing answers about what she hopes from her life in future.
# What’s your favorite kind of food? Is she a super picky eater? Or adventurous? How does it compare to you?
# What do you do for fun? If you like to hike and go skydiving, but she’s not a nature lover or risk taker… well… you get my point.
# Do you like concerts? This will give you an insight about the kind of music she likes, or if she even likes concerts at all.
# How would your friends describe you? This is a perfect question to ask a girl you just met, because it gives her an opportunity to humble brag and talk about how the world sees her, through her own eyes. [Read: How to talk to girls and impress them with your smooth talking skills – A full guide from scratch!]
# Would you ever go skydiving? This is a biggie! People who would go skydiving are very different than those who wouldn’t.