How would you feel to have a girl green-eyed with envy and madly competing for you? Jealousy might be a form of insecurity yet, it is also a sign of overflowing love towards the one you adore. Some might as well say it shows distrust and doubt in your relationship. However, girls wouldn’t be paranoid if a guy knows how to avoid things that would make his girl jealous.
Arab proverb once said “Love sees sharply; hatred sees even more sharp. But jealousy sees the sharpest — for it is love and hate at the same time.”
If she becomes jealous over you, the desire to have that which you’re protective about gradually escalates how much you value that person. Most girls can feel an extreme jealousy by several unnoticed reasons. She might try to hide her emotions but deep down the seed of jealousy takes root.
Thus, if you truly love your girl, these are the things you should be aware of to avoid her from getting jealous.
* Socializing with Ex’s
The sure-fire way to make your girl ignite with jealousy is when you still interact with your ex. Keeping in touch, spending a lot of time, and talking about your ex all the time is just a sign that you haven’t moved on yet.
* When you compliment other women
It’s not bad to appreciate things. However, praising other girls rather than her will begin to fume with jealous rage because she might mistake it as flirtation.
* Ignoring her calls and texts
Girls would often feel neglected and jealous once you don’t respond to their texts and calls. They are notorious over thinkers, you can’t blame them to think about the possibilities that you are busy talking to some other girls that’s why you can’t reply to her.
* When you’re out with her and get a text from another girlConsidering that you’re in the middle of a date and you’re being literally attached to your phone. This doesn’t only show rudeness towards her but it can also make her feel jealous. The only thing she needs is your attention and neglecting her would make her feel mistreated.
* Spending much time to a “guys’ night out”
Looking
forward to a guy’s night out and being excited about spending time with
your guy friends might make her think that you enjoy hanging out with
your friends rather than with her.
* Being too chivalrous to another girl
You might be the type of a guy who is chivalrous but girls would also normally think that chivalry goes hand-in-hand with physical attraction.
* When you forgot you have plans
Setting a schedule with her yet you forgot it on the day would make her feel jealous. You’ll just make her think that she’s your last priority and that’s a terrible mistake.
* Still wearing or using gifts from you EXWhen everything is done between you and your ex, there’s no point of keeping things you had before. If you don’t want your girl to get mad and jealous, you should at least throw things that remind you of your ex.
* Lying about being with other girls
Why would you lie to her, if you can tell her the truth? The more you lie, the more she’ll get angry and jealous because you made her think that you’re hiding something from her.
* Spending much time to a “guys’ night out”
Looking
forward to a guy’s night out and being excited about spending time with
your guy friends might make her think that you enjoy hanging out with
your friends rather than with her.
* Being too chivalrous to another girl
You might be the type of a guy who is chivalrous but girls would also normally think that chivalry goes hand-in-hand with physical attraction.
* When you forgot you have plans
Setting a schedule with her yet you forgot it on the day would make her feel jealous. You’ll just make her think that she’s your last priority and that’s a terrible mistake.
* Still wearing or using gifts from you EXWhen everything is done between you and your ex, there’s no point of keeping things you had before. If you don’t want your girl to get mad and jealous, you should at least throw things that remind you of your ex.
* Lying about being with other girls
Why would you lie to her, if you can tell her the truth? The more you lie, the more she’ll get angry and jealous because you made her think that you’re hiding something from her.
* Being physically attracted to another girlWell, it is not a doubt that most of the guys are physically attracted to girls because it is their nature. However, fantasizing other girls would make your girl jealous because this only shows that she’s not enough for you.
* Mentioning another girl in front of herTalking about how cool some girls are or sharing stories about the other girl in front of her would make her feel jealous. It’s like, why would you mention another girl to her if you don’t have any interest at all?
* Being too touchy with other girlsGetting physically close to other girls isn’t normal if you have a girlfriend. It just shows how flirty you are and would absolutely make your girl feel jealous.
* When you reply to a girls’ text message or chatExerting an effort replying to text messages or chat of girls who try to flirt on you is not a sign of “you just trying to be friendly.” You can’t blame your girl to think negative once she finds out that you’re replying messages from random girls.
* Trying to be more helpful to a female colleague
Probably, you’re just trying to assist a colleague to accomplish some tasks. However, this act will be viewed quite differently by your girl. In some instances, she’ll interpret it as if you’re trying to make a move on that girl and will lead to jealousy at some point.
* When you accept friend requests from random girls
Most of the girls often don’t want his man to make friends with some other girls. They are quite territorial and would immediately jump into a conclusion.
* When you hit the like or react button on other girls picture on FacebookThis may sound a bit immature; however this is happening in reality. Girls do get jealous to her guy, every time she sees him liking and reacting on other girls’ picture, especially if he doesn’t even do that with her.