20 Rules To Remember For Friends With Benefits

Wondering how to be friends with benefits without the complications? Read these 20 friends with benefits rules that can make all the difference.

Being friends with benefits with someone can seem like a dream come true.Especially if you’re not interested in anything more than a satisfying romp.

But a few good movies and a few bad stories from friends could have taught you a few things about the infamous FWB relationship.You can’t have the cake and eat it too.

But if that’s exactly what you want to do, here are some things you need to keep in mind.

* Don’t fall in love

This is the biggest rule and the easiest one to remember. Don’t fall in love. But then again, this is also the hardest one to follow.

* Have emotional maturity

Understand what kind of a relationship you’re getting into right from the start. There isn’t supposed to be a happy ending. Be satisfied with a satisfying ending.

* Set ground rules

How often should both of you call each other and how often should you meet? These rules aren’t set in stone, but both of you must make a conscious effort to follow it.

* Don’t get clingy for attention

Your friend with benefits isn’t your lover. Don’t constantly call them or try to make a conversation when you have nothing better to do.

* Keep it a secret

Don’t talk to your friends about it. Gossip has a funny way of spreading within minutes after you tell a friend about it. You’ll end up pissing your friend with benefits or getting a bad reputation.

* Don’t sleep with two friends from the same group

It’s too risky and you may get caught, especially if both of them are trying to exchange sly smiles and sneaky glances with you, or worse, trying to reach out to your crotch from under the table at the same time.

* Don’t be overenthusiastic

Yes, you get to have a no strings relationship with someone. Yeah, good for you! But keep that libido and enthusiasm down or you’ll end up getting bored or scaring your screw buddy away.

* Don’t go on a date

You may be intimate with each other, but that’s no excuse to see each other in any place other than a bed. You’ll ruin the relationship.

* Distract yourself

Get interested in someone else as soon as you start having sex with your friend with benefits. It’ll take the option of falling for them out as long as you’re infatuated by someone else.

* Don’t stay in touch too often

Don’t try to find out about their personal life or have conversations about life and its problems. You’re into each other for sex and you really should avoid involving anything else. Call for one reason and one reason alone.

* Avoid sleeping with a good friend

As sexually attracted as you may be, avoid having sex with a good friend that’s good looking. You will lose that friend or both of you will hate each other within a few months.

* Remember how it ends

Both of you will almost always stray apart. Or end up having an affair when one of you is in another relationship and that can get really messy. Pick the first option.

* Avoid anyone who’s seeing someone else

It may sound sexy and wicked and even give you an ego boost, but you’ll get caught or one of you will have to deal with a heavy bag of guilt that will ultimately be shared in the open.

* Mentally date someone else

Don’t talk about your personal lives with each other. But convince yourselves that the other person is actually dating someone else. It’ll help avoid falling for each other.

* Be honest

If you’re falling in love with your friend with benefits or feel like things are slipping out of hand, you owe it to your friend to at least let them know the truth so both of you can decide the course of the relationship.

* You can’t fall in love

You lose the chance of falling in love with someone who may be perfect for you. You may take a while to realize it, but even if you think your sex friend is the most charming person in the whole world, you really can’t do anything about it because it’s too late to retrace your steps.

* You may lose a great friend

If one of you have been hasty or made a few wrong decisions, both of you can’t do anything but walk away forever. Can you handle that?

* You could end up jealous or unhappy

As much as you may try to pretend like you don’t care, you may be upset if your friend dates someone else. And all this even though you know the ground rules.

* There may be a disease involved

No one likes talking about this part. But it’s something to be wary about, especially if your friend has a lot of active friends with benefits. And of course, you’re not going to talk about it because *you don’t care*, right?

* Romantic feelings will find a way

Romance always finds a way to crop up for one of you if the relationship lasts more than a few months. And trust me, both of you aren’t going to like where that road goes.