20 Signs That He Has a Big Secret Crush on You

We can’t read minds because that is what only Superman and few other characters can do. It sucks when you want to know what is going on in another’s mind. And the fact that you can’t read others' minds is even more disappointing when it comes to deciphering what your crush thinks about you. Yeah! You heard it right. It insanely sucks when you are blushing while your secret crush is looking or staring at you and you want to talk to them but you can’t figure out what he might be thinking. It’s complicated, and that is what pushes people to think of other ways to gauge what signs or signals their crush might be giving.

# They start hanging out with you

One says a boy and a girl can never be friends. In these times, it isn’t true since we already have a concept of being friendzoned. While you had a crush on a guy and the guy started initiated hangouts with you, it is a clear sign that he might be interested. They either ask for a movie or coffee or hang out at times especially when it's only you and him.

# That Ginormous Smile By Your Crush

Did the world just came crashing down when your crush gave you a ginormous smile? It could possibly mean he is interested in you. You need to keep an undivided attention while receiving such a smile to decipher if it’s for you or not.

# Eye Contact With Your Crush

Eye Contact reveals a lot. For a girl, a guy looking in her eye means that the guy likes her and he is pretty confident to start chatting. If he is making a lot of eye contact with you lately, this is one of the clear signs that he likes you. Many times, it is a best-kept secret that even his best friend won’t be aware of.

# They’ll compliment you


These will be subtle, low-lying, praises and compliments that usually won’t trigger something but if you pay a close attention, you will observe that he is trying to compliment you for each and everything you do. For instance, ‘cool t-shirt’ is a small but pleasing complement.

# He notices even the slightest details

It could be a new haircut or even the new Kajal that you are applying but he will never forget to praise you for the slightest details. Things will never go unnoticed so whatever you're wearing or however you look, you will always be praised by your so-called secret crush.

# Long unending conversation

One of the biggest and the easiest signs of a secret crush that your friend might be is long conversations that he has been putting up lately. A guy who likes you or has a crush on you will try to keep the conversation going on.

# Touch and Feel

Except for those creeps and desperate wannabes who are easily recognizable, there will be a guy who loves touching you or at least tries to touch *not inappropriately*. Holding hands can be included in this category. If you know someone like this, he could have a crush on you. Touching is a way of expressing one’s affecting towards others.

# When you catch them staring at you


Once again, all the creeps who stare at girls aren’t included in this category. When a guy has a crush on you, at times he will stare at you and that is where you can contemplate if he likes you or not. Even if you have a crush on someone, you’ll do the same. Unless you were doing something absurd, he might be looking at something your beautiful face.

# He flaunts his singlehood

You could be single or in a relationship but the one who likes you and has a soft corner for you within his heart would resort to being single. Moreover, he will flaunt that he is single and will keep the talk about him being single afloat until you notice.

# He won’t ask you about your partner

It hurts when you know that your crush is already in a relationship with someone and that is why your secret crush will resort to not discuss anything about your partner. If you have someone like this then there is a strong chance that he is probably into you.

# He will ask deep and heavy questions


Friends do ask questions but someone who has a crush or likes you will probably dive into the most informative questions such as about your personal life, the tragedy in your past (if any), dreams, etc. It’s human psychology that when we like somebody, we strive to acquire more and more information about him/her.

# He will get jealous more often


At the sight of another guy’s name, he will surely get jealous. Either he could display his angst against you or he might resort to keep quiet about it.

# He gives signs towards something more than friendship

At times, he initiates being close to you. If he has a crush on you, he will make the move first or he would send signs that he is wanting to talk to you.

# One of the big signs that someone has a crush on you is his friends

Did you notice you have come across people with whom you never met? His friends would know your name and other information while you being unaware of them.

# They try their best to look nice for their secret crush

When with friends, we do not care how we look. According to human psychology, you would try your level best to look good around your crush and that is what applies to someone who might have feelings for you.

# Your secret crush pays for the food


Friends can be mean at times, but not that one guy who likes you. If he has feelings for you, then he would pay for the bill and pay for movies that you will be watching together. He would be tricky to manipulate your decision of paying yourself so that you let him pay.

# Your decisions and opinions matter the most to him

You've resolved to climb Mt. Everest, and everybody disagrees with your decision. Not him. He supports you. This is a clear indication that he cares and respects for your opinions and decisions and would do anything and everything to keep it that way.

# The biggest signs that he has a crush on you is the First Text daily.

He would opt for messaging you first in the morning. This becomes his routine to wake-up, message you or call you and then get freshened up. Moreover, he would keep the conversation going for long with new topics.

# He’s there when you need him

Unlike others, he is on your speed dial because he is always there for you. Whenever you call him to help you, he comes running and helps you in whatever way possible.

# He helps in your studies or your work


Whether a study project or data research for your work project, for instance in physiology, he will be there for you if you need him. He would be there even if doesn’t even know what physiology is and why is it important but he will come prepared referring all the physiology notes available at his disposal.


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