27 Texts You Can Send After a First Date

You’ve just wrapped up your first date, and now you’re left wondering—what’s the next move? Those moments right after can feel like a whirlwind of excitement, curiosity, and maybe even a few nerves.

So, how do you follow up without overthinking it? A thoughtful text can go a long way in keeping the spark alive. But the real question is: what exactly should you say?

We’ve put together a collection of post-first-date texts to match all kinds of vibes and situations.

Whether you’re eager for a second date, want to keep things casual, are hoping for something deeper, or just want to keep the conversation going, we’ve got you covered.

Navigating the post-date phase isn’t always easy. You’re interested but not quite sure how to strike the right tone.

That’s why we’ve rounded up 27 text ideas to fit a variety of feelings and outcomes. Whether you're feeling butterflies or just curious, these messages can help you steer things in the right direction.

# For an Amazing Date

If your first date went really well and you’re excited to see them again, let that enthusiasm shine through. These texts show your interest and leave the door open for planning what’s next:

“I had such a great time tonight. Want to do it again sometime soon?”

“Thanks for a fun night! How about a round two?”

“Tonight was awesome. When can we plan the sequel?”

# For a Meh Date

If the date was fine but didn’t spark anything special, it’s totally okay to keep it polite and low-key without leading anyone on. These texts do just that:

“It was nice meeting you tonight. Take care!”

“Thanks for coming out—it was good to meet you.”

“Nice meeting you! Wishing you a great week ahead.”

# If You Want to Keep Things Casual

Maybe you had a decent time and just want to keep things light. These messages are playful, fun, and show appreciation without putting pressure on what’s next:

“Still chuckling about [insert funny moment]. Thanks for the laughs!”

“You were even more fun in person. Let’s do it again sometime!”

“Tonight was a blast, wasn’t it?”

# If You’re On the Fence

Not sure how you feel about a second date? These texts strike a balance—expressing gratitude while giving you some space to think things through:

“I had a good time tonight—it was definitely a unique experience.”

“Really enjoyed our conversation. It gave me a lot to think about.”

“Thanks for tonight. I’m still processing everything, but it was nice meeting you.

# If You’re Definitely Interested

When you know you’re into them and want to take it to the next step, these messages make your feelings clear without being over the top:

“Can’t wait to see you again. What’s your schedule like next week?”

“I had such a good time, I couldn’t help but tell my friends about you.”

“Too soon to plan date #2? Because I’m already looking forward to it!”

# If You Want to Be Honest But Respectful

If it didn’t feel like a romantic match but you still want to end things on a kind note, these texts are honest yet courteous:

“I enjoyed meeting you, but I don’t see this going further. Thanks for the evening.”

“Thanks for the time—we had a good chat, but I didn’t feel a spark.”

“It was nice getting to know you. I think we’re better suited as friends, if that’s cool with you.”

# If You Want to Keep the Conversation Going

Whether you’re intrigued or just curious, these texts are great for continuing the dialogue and seeing where things might go:

“What did you think about [insert shared moment/topic]?”

“Did you get home okay?”

“Still thinking about what you said about [topic]—really interesting!”

# For a Flirty Follow-Up

Want to keep the vibes fun and flirtatious? These messages bring some playful charm without going too far:

“If every first date was like that, I’d go on a hundred more!”

“How did I get lucky enough to meet someone like you?”

“You're as charming as you are attractive—and that’s saying something!”

# If You’re Feeling Bold

Ready to put yourself out there? These texts are sincere, a little vulnerable, and show real interest:

“I’m not usually good at this, but I’d love to see you again—what do you think?”

“Can I be honest? I was kind of nervous tonight, but you made it so easy.”

“This isn’t something I usually say, but I had a really great time and hope we can do it again.”