In this day and age, men AND women can BOTH be players; but how does a woman successfully be a player? We’re lining out the must-knows and the details to how a lady can be a successful player. However, on the off chance you DO develop feelings for this guy, you have two options: your first option is to dump him ASAP before it gets too deep or serious. The other option is to hang up your player personality and enter into a relationship with him. Talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way, though, before you get too tangled up with your feelings about this guy. If he doesn’t feel the same way, your best bet is to just move on and forget it ever happened.
# Delete MessagesOkay, think about this situation for a minute: you’re hanging out with one of your guy friends- you know, one you’re kind of messing around with and having a good time with- but then he accidentally sees your text messages, and there’s a long list of men. He is probably going to feel incredibly uncomfortable with your… ‘freedom’, per se, and he probably won’t want to continue. He won’t feel like the lucky man getting some from you; instead, he will feel like just another guy you visit weekly. So, ladies, delete all your messages- trust me, this is HUGE.
# Phone OffOf course, you can avoid any sticky situation altogether by simply turning off your phone when you’re around one of your guy friends. This will ensure no flirty or sexy text messages pop up when you’re with this guy, which will certainly benefit you. This will also not make you seem so ‘eager’: a guy will text you, and you won’t text back for a couple of hours. Players like to keep their playmates on a string and nothing serious, so if you’re not texting back right away, they will want you even more. They’ll be wondering what you’re up to, of course, but that works to your benefit. This also shows them that they aren’t anything too special in your life, so they won’t think you’re looking for anything more than a good time; and if you’re a player, that’s exactly what you want.
# Don’t See Him Too OftenSeeing him once, MAYBE even twice a week is alright; anything more than that and you may confuse him into thinking he is your boyfriend. I mean, think about it: he isn’t your boyfriend. So why do you need to see him all that often? You guys aren’t going out on dates or doing anything romantic; you’re simply hanging out with him for a good time. And while you may love to get ‘busy’ more than once or twice a week, you also don’t want to give him the wrong impression. So, see your guy once or twice a week at max; see your other men on the other days, if you have more than one
# Be ConfidentI think we are VERY well aware at this point that confidence is extremely sexy; it can make or break someone, really! If you’re trying to play the field, then you need to be a confident woman. More men will find you attractive and you will have no problem playing around without developing feelings for one of your guys. You won’t crave their attention and you won’t need them to keep you occupied 24/7 when you’re a confident woman, so this really helps when trying to be a player.