Learn more about the secrets of getting him to think about you even when you’re not around.
First of all, you shouldn’t feel bad about wanting to perform a little emotional manipulation on someone. There are people who will say that you’re being manipulative when you try to make someone miss you. And they might be right.
However, that’s not necessarily a bad thing. You can always make the argument that making someone fall in love with you is a form of emotional manipulation as well, isn’t it? Emotional manipulation in itself isn’t bad so as long as it doesn’t bring about destructive outcomes.
For example, if you’re emotionally manipulating someone because you want to be able to benefit from their kindness, money, and what not to the point where it’s abusive, then that’s a bad thing. That’s definitely something that you should be ashamed of.
However, if you’re emotionally manipulating someone just because you want them to fall in love with you, is that such a bad thing? Love is an emotional game after all. Sometimes, you need to learn all of the best plays in order for you to come out on top. Just make sure that you don’t end up hurting anyone in the process.
Before you can try to think of ways to make a Libra man miss you, it’s important that you know what his personality is like when he’s in love. You probably already know that he’s someone who enjoys a great deal of attention and social interaction.
He’s a social butterfly. That’s because his sense of self-confidence is dependent on how he thinks others see him. He knows that he’s amiable. But a lot of his amiability comes from his self-esteem as well. This is why he only ever really likes to put himself in situations wherein he gets to gather positive energy.
He isn’t going to be all that fond of people who are always so depressed and down in the dumps. He’s the kind of guy who always wants to be around people who are smiling and having a good time. This makes him feel good on the inside and it makes him feel better about being alive and present.
* Be Upfront About Your Feelings
Don’t be coy with him. A Libra isn’t going to want to chase after a girl he doesn’t think he has a chance with. He has to know that he has a good chance of landing a girl like you. Otherwise, he isn’t going to even try. After all, a Libra man is someone who doesn’t deal with failure too well. That’s why he only likes to take calculated risks.
* Don’t Make Yourself Too Available
You have to make sure that you don’t take yourself too available when you’re with him. You have to make him feel like you’re a valued resource and that your time is scarce. This will give you an air of exclusivity and it’s going to definitely make him want you more.
That’s also a huge part of how a Libra’s mind works. He’s going to want prized possessions, so to speak. He wants something that everyone else wants. So, if he thinks that a lot of people want to spend time with you, he’s going to want the same.
* Allow Him to Be the Center of a Conversation
Let him talk your ear off. A Libra man is someone who is always going to want to do a lot of talking. That’s just part of his amiable personality. He sees it as a great opportunity to connect with the people around him. So, let him feel like you’re genuinely interested. Insert a few well-placed questions here and there to let him know that you’re invested in whatever he has to say.
* Learn to Carry a Conversation YourselfWhile you want to make sure that you let him do most of the talking, you also need to contribute every once in a while. He isn’t going to want to keep on conversing with you if you’re not going to engage with him on the same level. You need to prove to him that you can be just as amiable as he is. Otherwise, he’s going to get bored of you fairly quickly.