5 Gifts You Can Give To Your Family Everyday

With spring in full swing, we are entering the season of Mother’s Day and anniversaries. It would be wise to make a list of all of the possible gifts to get for these events. However, before you put your pen away, use it to make another list of things to give year-round to the people who are most important to you.

Putting time and effort into choosing just the right present for someone is a great way of demonstrating how much they mean to you. However, anniversaries, Christmas, and birthdays come only once a year, and you don’t have to wait twelve months to give them something meaningful. Here are 5 gifts to give your spouse, your children, and others close to you every single day. They won’t affect your wallet and the results could be priceless.

* The benefit of the doubt

You sense a note of disapproval or a hint of criticism in something your spouse says. It seems that your teenage son has deliberately disregarded your rule about no dirty shoes in the house again. Don’t automatically assume the worst. Believe the best and find out more before jumping to conclusions that can unnecessarily put you in adversarial mode.

* Your attention

One of the best gifts you can give someone does not involve bringing a present, but being present. Really focus on being with them, not with your cell phone. Also, focus on what they are saying to you. We men particularly need to recognize that there’s a difference between hearing and listening. I may be able to repeat back to Susan word for word what she told me in a conversation, but she knows whether I’m really listening or not.

* A hand

Of course, you pitch in to help when there’s a big need, but those little things can mean a lot too. What can you do to help lighten their load on a regular basis? If Susan is going to be driving somewhere, I make sure the car is gassed up. It’s not that she couldn’t do it herself, but that simple gesture fills her “love tank” too. So pick up the dirty clothes or replace that burned-out light bulb without having to be asked.

* Your acceptance

Your spouse and children need to know that you are for them. That you may not always approve of what they do, but that your love for them is not based on their actions. Let them know I love you, no matter what. You might speak this, but you will also show it in your actions and your attitude. A smile and a hug can tell someone they are safe when the world seems to have ganged up on them.

* Your affirmation

Encouraging words are never more powerful than when they come from those we love. Don’t just assume they know you appreciate and support them: Vocalize it. Tell your wife how you admire the way she models integrity and faith in all she does. Speak appreciatively to your husband of his work ethic and diligence. Validation is vital in filling the 4 chambers of your husband’s heart. Remark to your children about how proud you are of them. You may want to memorize these six short sentences your child needs to hear you say.