Sexless marriage is a complaint I get often from clients. While sometimes, in case of illness or injury, a complete sexual experience is not possible in marriage, it is always best to have whatever sexual experience is available to the couple. Marriage without sex is wide-open to temptation. Don’t kid yourselves that you can be “best friends” and your marriage will last. Sooner or later, temptation will arise, either from a partner’s co-worker, another member of the church choir or a neighbor. The drive to have sex is powerful, and it will be satisfied, one way or another.
* Date him againDate nights are a must. Mid-week, get out of those sweats and dress up -- and no talking about mortgages, sick parents and the kids' soccer schedules. Get to know the person you married again romantically.
* Take a vacationGet out of your routine and. if possible, go on a trip. If there's no money for anything extra, take a long walk, have a picnic dinner or visit a museum; any shared activity that you both enjoy will work. Talking bonds you.
* Tell him what you wantGood communication is a must no blame game. Unless your partner is a psychic, tell or show him what you need or want, in bed and out.
* Foreplay begins in the morningThings like an "I love you" in the morning, a special touch at breakfast, a "thinking of you" text during the workday, and cooking your spouse's favorite dish matter. They all count as foreplay.
* Try something newBe adventuresome in bed. Try new positions, toys and fantasies.