Have you met a guy recently and found yourself wondering if he likes you? But seriously, is he in love with you?
It can be confusing at times, or at times, you may just have that instinctive feeling that there’s something more than friends in the air but you may just not be able to pinpoint what it is.And at times, there may be no clear cut signs, but there are some not-so-obvious clues that guys give away, which can tell you whether he’s in love with you or not.So the next time you’re wondering if he is in love with you, use these signs to read between the lines.
# His Eyes SparkleHave you ever watched a child being served a big bowl of ice cream with all the works? You can’t help but notice that the child’s eyes light up with happiness.
Likewise, when you meet someone you’re happy to see, you are obviously excited.
And surprisingly, the human pupil dilates when someone is excited or has strong feelings about something.
You can tell a lot about whether a guy likes you by the way he looks at you, and the way he pays attention to you.
A guy’s eye contact often tells a lot about him and his feelings towards you. Remember this, we often reveal far more than we desire through our eyes. So is he in love with you? If his eyes sparkle with happiness, you’ve definitely made a great impression on him!
# He is Happy Around YouNow don’t get us wrong here, friends make each other happy. But when a guy likes you, he would plaster his face with a wide grin no matter what he’s doing.
If he’s fond of you or likes you, you’ll see that he smiles and blushes a lot more easily when you’re around him. He would avoid any distractions and make you the center of his attention, no matter where he is or what he’s doing.
# Common Interests
If a guy is engaging in activities that you like to do, or making an extra effort to be a part of them, chances are he’s doing it just to spend more time with you. Girls love company and so do boys, and we all enjoy activities a lot more when we’re with someone we like.
So take notice of how often he wants to do things with you or go out with you, be it movies, games or chores. If it seems rather frequent, it’s a good sign he’s into you. And he obviously wants you to think you share a lot of common interests, which makes him more likeable!
# Weekends TogetherAll of us have hectic lives, and everyday can be quite a handful. A weekend is that part of the week when we get a bit of time to relax and do what we enjoy most. But when a guy wants to spend weekends with you or wants to hang out with you, it could well mean that he’s interested in something more than just hanging out together.
When we like someone, we want to be with them all the time. What better way to spend time than by spending weekends together? After all, when you spend weekends together, you’re not doing it because you bumped into each other by accident. And any guy who likes you would love that thought. So if a guy wants to meet you on weekends all the time, ask yourself if you’re ready for something more than friendship.
# He is Overly ConcernedGood friends are concerned about you, but a guy who likes you would always be overly concerned. He would remind you about all your appointments, he’d ask you if you’ve had lunch, he’d offer you a jacket even if it isn’t cold, he’d suggest a trip to the doctor even if you just cough once!
So is he in love with you? There’s a big chance he’s trying to impress you if you find that he’s overly concerned almost all the time, no matter where you both of you are.
This can be cute at most times, and rather irritating at other times. But it’s just something the guy can’t help but do if he really does like you. Any guy who likes you would want to take care of you too, so if you find a guy becoming overly concerned and caring, it probably means there’s something in the air.