5 Signs That Show Whether He Wants To Be in a Relationship or Not

When it comes to men, we all are like an open book. From our body language, women can clearly tell whether we are interested in dating them or not if they are careful enough of course. That said, there are some typical signs that a woman could use to tell whether a male wants to be more than friends. Without further ado, here are some signs that might indicate that he does want to be in a relationship with you:

# If he wants a relationship, he will keep in touch

When it comes to a man wanting to be with a woman, they show different signs depending on who they are. Some might show some and others might not. For instance, you might here a girl asking another girl this question: “He wants to kiss me; does it mean that he does want to be in a relationship with me?” The answer to that isn’t clear because it goes both ways. But signs such as keeping in touch through calls, texting, tagging in funny memes or sending smoke signs her way (especially if you are from a village in Africa like myself), it might show that he is interested in you. Why? Because guys don’t keep in touch with women who they don’t want to be with — period. Even if a girl happens to be his best friend, a man will always pick the girl he is interested in over the one he calls a best friend. So, every time you go to the river to fetch water and you see a smoke signal, you might want to start preparing yourself for some rigorous courtship rituals.

# He wants a relationship if he is always making time for you

If he makes time for you, even at odd hours especially if you need him, it might be a strong indicator that he wants to be more than friends. Men were created to be protective of women and more so when it comes to those that we want to be in a relationship with. They will always come up with plans for the future and will always include you in it, which makes it more or less special. Therefore, it wouldn’t hurt if you took your time and tried to see just how many guys have been dying to spend time with you. If you do so, you might just find prince charming whom you had unknowingly locked up somewhere in the friend zone because you were busy mistaking his availability for just being a good friend.

# Being patient is a good sign that he wants a relationship

Another one of the very important signs that he wants a relationship is if he is patient. He sure wants to be more than friends if he doesn’t rush into making love or moving in with you. The latter might be so because he wants you to go at your own pace even though he is ready to go on one knee and propose the next second. Being patient also shows that he sees your value and respects your boundaries as well as your decisions. So, the next time your closest girlfriend asks you “why doesn’t he kiss me?”, remind her that he is waiting for the right moment because he values you.

# He trusts you because you have values he likes

Instead of asking the annoying “why did he not kiss me?” questions, appreciate the fact that he trusts you. Ladies, this is one of the most important values to look out for especially if he is looking to be more than friends. He knows that you have some amazing qualities and would love to see you spend the rest of your life with him. So, whenever he calls you and you don’t pick up, he won’t start overthinking like some needy guys trying to find out whether or not you are cheating. They always think highly of you and will never sweat the small stuff because they know you have value and that is why they want to be in a relationship with you.

# He might want you if he pays extra attention to you

When a guy notices things about you including the minutest of changes, then chances are that he wants to be more than friends. Why is this the case? Because for generations, men have always been known for their notoriously low attention span especially when it comes to things they have zero interest in. So, if he notices that your hair has been differently coiffured, or that you changed your nail police or you lost some weight or vice versa, chances are that he clearly wants you all for himself. The same also happens when he can’t help but shower you with compliments over and over again. Complementing someone shows that you not only noticed their effort but that you appreciate it. So, if this happens to be the case with that one guy that has been eyeing you, maybe it’s about time that you had a sit-down and talk about having a future or none at all.