What?? Yes, my dear friend. There are few things that look nice but ultimately they are not.
Your relationship might be going good, but there are few things that are going un-noticed and means you need to look after your relationship. Few things need to observed which lead to keeping your boy-friend as just friend.
# It’s one thing if you have to work up to prime compatibility, but by now, you know the difference between “we’re still finding our groove” and just not being into it. If the sexual chemistry is off, get out of it. Think about it: If you’re lucky, you can still get to hang out and talk, but you won’t have to have crappy sex.
# All couples have times when their eyes wander, especially once the initial heart eyes fade. But if you wish your work wife was your actual wife (but like, for real), your current relationship might not be satisfying you properly anymore.
# If you can’t keep your hands off each other, but then feel like they are dreadfully boring (or even a little too crazy for your liking) outside of the sack, it might need to be over. But hey, possible bright side: You might have a new f*ck buddy.
# Tons of couples start as friends and then turn into lov-ahs, but sometimes it’s not a great move. Because you both worked so hard to transition into a couple, it can be hard to admit defeat. Just gotta suck it up and do it.
# If your partner is bringing you down maybe with emotional or substance abuse issues you aren’t equipped to deal with it is not heartless to take a big ass step back. Of course you want to be there for them, but if they’re getting in the way of you being you, you should take a step back. But hang around for the times they need your stellar advice and help when you can give it.