Differentiating between love and lack of it in a marriage can be tricky. There can be instances where you may wonder whether passion or spark still exists between you two.
It is not an uncommon feeling. Try not to be over-critical about the things happening between you two, as you may not always be able to read your partner’s mind or know how she feels. Before you jump to any conclusions, try to understand the circumstances and figure out what you can do about them.
Read this post to identify the signs your wife doesn’t love you anymore. However, do not rule out any other possible reasons for her behavior before drawing conclusions.
* Communication has become rare: You may notice that communication between the two of you is not the same as before. She may have stopped sharing the details of her day, including work, friends, and family with you. She may have also stopped seeking advice from you or asking you to do certain things.
* There is a lack of intimacy: Intimacy is not just sexual. It includes emotional intimacy too. Hugging, cuddling, and holding hands are different ways to express love and share intimate moments. If your wife shows no interest or cringes when you initiate any physical contact and makes excuses to avoid moments of intimacy for no foreseeable reasons, you may need to figure out things.
* She is grumpy around you: You may notice that your wife’s attitude towards you has changed. Her mood may change as soon as you enter the room or initiate a talk. She may start minding habits which were irrelevant earlier, and the conversation with your wife may appear more like nagging.
* She keeps withdrawing from you: It is important to have some social life outside your marriage. However, if you feel that she enjoys the company of others more than yours, withdraws from you, or is not responsive to you, it could be a sign that she’s not into you anymore. You may also notice that she no longer texts or messages you to check about your day.
* She pays little or no attention: As a couple, you know a great many things about each other, including your preferred looks, diet habits, etc. If your wife doesn’t show any interest in these things anymore and doesn’t pay attention to the changes you have made to your lifestyle, then there could be some changes in your relationship.