If you’re not sure what to do for a first date, always get some coffee together. Not only is this a perfect mix between romantic and casual, it’s also a great way to talk without the pressure of eating.
Plus, it can be kept really short if you’re not into the person. You can finish your coffee and tell them you have to take off. On the other hand, if you do like them, it’s a great prerequisite to a longer date night if you decide to get dinner or a movie together.
Before we get into the actual conversation starters, keep some of these tips in mind to help you make the most out of talking to your potential future partner.
# Stay away from religious topics
Unless you both met on a religion-specific dating site, try to avoid these topics. You may both have the exact same beliefs but that’s not really important on the first date. Second date? Absolutely. But the first date is about establishing if you have a connection.
# Avoid controversial issuesJust don’t talk about stuff people tend to have very strong opinions about. This can help avoid a clash and argument. If they do ask you something, just kindly move away from it and on to a different topic.
# Have confidenceBe yourself and show them how much you like yourself. Never underestimate the power of having a lot of confidence when making conversation. If you’re loving yourself, they’ll end up liking you, too.
# Flirt a little bitDon’t be afraid to let your flirty
side out. You don’t have to be super proper on your first date. Let them
know you’re interested if you are and the flirting can also help keep
the conversation light and fun.
# Let the conversation go where it needs toDon’t force the conversation into something else. If you’re going off topic from what you have planned, that’s perfectly fine. Let it progress naturally and you may find that you don’t need any starters at all.