Many people think about their sex life in the right direction and in the right proportion, but find themselves completely at a loss when it comes to ‘doing’ something about it.
* Undressing even in privacy, even after a significant period after marriage. Hesitation to undress is common in newly married women; however, it is a temporary phenomenon.
* When it is prolonged beyond a week, in spite of all the understanding by the partner, it is definitely not normal unless it is a way to convey total disagreement towards the marriage.
* Performing normal peno-vaginal intercourse out of fear, anxiety or excessive shyness.
* Trying different positions during peno-vaginal intercourse, desired by both the partners and which are physically possible.
* Keep the communication lines open. For everyone in a conjugal relationship, and at all the stages of their relationship, communication is the life-line.
* Try to define for yourself and your spouse what your complaints and pleasures are. Many people are uncomfortable and shy about making specific requests, but open talk and experimentation are vital.