It’s sad that long distance sex is pretty much the same at it used to be when Alexandra Graham Bell invented telephone (just kidding). But phone sex can definitely feel like that if you don’t know what to do or what you are doing. It is a art and with time you’ll become a pro. But to reach that level you definitely need some practice and need to understand certain things.
* It’s more about you than your partnerPhone sex is popular for millions of reasons and one is that, it is safe. You can literally talk and touch yourself without the fear that someone might be watching you or recording your act. So open up to your partner and enjoy your wildest fantasies. Only then will you realise how great phone sex is when you and your lover are in the mood for it.
* Embrace the freedomNo awkwardness, no hesitations, no condoms and no worries about getting pregnant or about anything else. Plus over the phone you seen to get hell lot of confident about yourself and you say or do things that you wouldn’t even dream of when you’re with your partner. So why not just go for it? Slip it on and tell your partner exactly what you’re wearing.
* Ease into itOnce you get comfortable with the idea of phone sex, this’ll probably be the best thing that’ll you would have ever experience apart from the sex itself. Phone sex tends to come more naturally when you start off the conversation as you normally would. Then try turning your casual conversation into a slightly sexier one. Ask them what they think about a particular sex action or what their favourite thing that you guys get up to in bed is. And after you get comfortable and in the groove, start asking questions. It’s all about easing into it.
* The more explicit, more betterThe dirtier the talks, the more enjoyable your experience will get. You are already into the mood, so what’s the shame in getting a little dirtier along the way. Be specific and be loud. Moan in his ears so he knows you are enjoying it as much as he is!
* It requires Q&ANo, not just bluntly replying to his question but in a more sexual manner. Good phone sex is all about the back and forth between both of you. It can’t be a one-sided conversation. If you’re both fully into it, things will get super hot. So let your mouth do the talking and your fingers do the walking, and see what buttons you press!