5 Tips To Help You Find Your Soulmate

If you’re like women in every country, at every age, you have spent at least part of your life dedicated to finding your soulmate.

And maybe so far, you’ve only kissed frogs and are still looking for Prince Charming. Maybe you’re even giving up hope that you’ll ever find him, or that soulmates even exist.There’s a beautiful story that when you die, your soul shatters into pieces. When you are reincarnated, your soulmate has a sliver of your soul.

But without getting cheesy, to me, a soulmate is someone who just…fits. You don’t have to work hard to be happy together. Things just flow. You feel like you already know them the second you meet.

* Use the Law of Attraction to Find Your Soulmate

The law of attraction is the belief that “like attracts like,” and that by focusing on positive thoughts we can bring about positive results. By understanding and following this simple rule, you will be empowered to attract a lifelong partner.

* Allow Yourself to Fall

In my many years of coaching women on finding love, I’ve met my fair share of women who, while they say they’re open to finding their soulmate, are actually closed off to it.

Usually, these women have been terribly hurt in past relationships and have put up a wall around their hearts in an effort to prevent getting hurt again.

* Be Confident That You’ll Find Him

Another common problem I’ve seen with women I’ve coached is that they say, “Adam, there are no good guys. Believe me! I’ve looked all my life. I’ll never find my soulmate.”I’m a big believer that you get what you put out there. So if you say you’re never finding your soulmate, guess what?? You probably aren’t.

Instead, even if you’re frustrated with the search, believe that he’s out there. Like I said, there’s no timeline for when you’ll meet your soulmate, so how can you get frustrated if it isn’t meant to happen right now?

* Put Yourself First

It might seem strange advice when you’re working on finding your soulmate, but the person you need to focus on first is yourself. You need to be happy and emotionally balanced to attract your perfect match, and if you’re constantly putting others before you or just not taking care of yourself, how can you expect to be appealing to someone else?

A woman who takes care of herself is incredibly sexy. Whether you take time every week to do yoga or go to salsa lessons, whether you get regular massages or meditate, or whether you simply lead a full life filled with friends and activities, you are finding happiness in your world without tying it to finding your soulmate. When you’re happy on your own, that’s when he’ll come along!

* Define What You Desire Most In Your Soulmate

Have you given much thought to what you want in a partner? How can you be successful at finding your soulmate if you don’t know what you’re looking for?

I suggest you make a list of the qualities you want in a partner so that you can identify it when you find a man who has all (or most) of these qualities. Likewise, if a man has none of them, this can help you realize that he’s probably not the one for you.