Neighbours come in all shapes and sizes and in all neighbourhoods. Some of them are helpful, accommodating and then, there are the other kind. Some make it impossible to sleep at night, some can’t keep their pets under control, while others might practice drunk-walking around the neighbourhood and scare your kids.A bad neighbour is anyone who lives next door and gets on your nerves regularly by doing something which might not be particularly illegal but is exceptionally annoying.
If you find it increasingly uncomfortable living under your own roof, it is likely that you have a bad neighbour to blame.
Your neighbours can be slightly annoying, annoying and exceptionally annoying. Slightly annoying neighbours can be parents of ill-mannered children who scream all day long, drivers who got it wrong about parking rules, irresponsible pet owners having hard times taking care of their four-legged friends, overly friendly ladies who want to tell your their biography each time you meet, and even chronic borrowers.
There are annoying neighbours who can be party animals dancing and drinking 24/7, gossipers who spread rumours about you or your family, rock bands singing the same chords in a self-made studio.
And then, there are the exceptionally annoying neighbours. This is the gentry of plain outright psychos, sneaky stealers, and garbage collectors.
Whatever the type you are dealing with, you will find these tips helpful:
* Introduce yourself and make them aware of the botherationFirst thing to do if your neighbours start to annoy you on a regular basis is to step up and introduce yourself. By simply introducing yourself and letting your neighbours know what bothers you might make wonders. Firstly, because people tend to be more ashamed and respectful in regards to those they know personally. Secondly, there is a tiny little chance that your neighbours have no idea they annoy you, and telling them so will solve the problem once and for all.
* Don’t accuse, tell them how it makes you feelOne of the most common mistakes is to accuse neighbours right from the start. A way smarter approach would be telling them you’re bothered and annoyed, but keeping the conversation friendly and polite. Try to find the root cause of your neighbour’s bad behaviour and offer to help if they’ve happened to deal with a problem that makes them behave in a particular way.
* Consider using mediators
If you and your neighbours find it hard to understand each other’s concerns and feelings, it is advisable to find a mediator who’s willing to solve the problem for the benefit of both parties. If you’re renting, get in touch with your landlord and ask if he or she is ready to mediate. As you’re the one sending checks to your landlord every month (or paying rent online), your comfort should be their concern as well.
* Seek support of other neighbours
It’s always easier to achieve desired goals through joint efforts. If it’s likely that you’re not the only one unhappy about your neighbour’s behaviour, you should check if someone else is ready to side you. This point is especially important if you decide to contact local precinct or file a complaint in court. In this case, quantity matters. The more people share your opinion, the more chances to win you have.
* Call your neighbour’s landlord
Most of the people don’t like to complain or report on others, but sometimes it’s the only way out. If your neighbours are long-term tenants, chances are good they don’t want to be evicted. If this holds true, it’s likely that your problem will be solved before you even know it.