These days, we have far more conversations virtually than we do in person. We’re constantly attached to our phones and that means we don’t actually connect with others via words spoken to their faces. For those who prefer to avoid direct conversations, texting is the ideal answer. But are you trying to figure out how to not be a dry texter?
Texting means you must find a way to show your personality in written words, which can be extremely different. It’s for this reason that the world is full of so many dry texters. I’m glad you’re here to learn how to shine in a world full of dull texters.
If you want to learn how not to be a dry texter, you first need to know whether this is a problem you actually have or not. Let’s look at a few signs that point to having seriously parched texting game.
# You always struggle for things to sayHaving a brain block when a text comes in is normal, but if it happens to you every single time and you struggle to come up with a witty remark to send in reply, it could be a sign of dry texting on your part.
# Your predictive text automatically comes up with “lol” or “ok”You can’t hide from predictive text! If yours has “lol” or “ok” as the first thing that comes up when you go to type, that’s a pretty solid sign that you have dry texting issues and need to be a little more imaginative or perhaps text off the cuff a bit more.
# People don’t tend to text you back much anymore!If you’re constantly replying with dry remarks, people are probably going to stop texting you. If your message inbox is looking a little bare, that could be the reason why.
# Someone has pointed out that your texting game is badPeople can be blunt, and if a close friend has said to you that your texting game needs an overhaul, you should probably sit up and take notice.
# You don’t enjoy text conversationsSome people just don’t find it easy to get their message or their personality over in a text, and that’s fine. If you find that you really don’t enjoy text conversations and they feel stilted and uncomfortable to you, that could be a reason why your texts are drier than the Sahara.
# People tend to call you more than message youI just mentioned that some people don’t like texting, and if that’s the case, your nearest and dearest might have picked up on it and decided that to avoid getting dry texts from you, they’re going to call you instead.