Do you feel something in the air when you’re around this guy? Do you ever wonder, is he into me, because of the things he does for you or the things he does around you?
Sometimes it’s not easy for a guy to tell a girl that he likes her. He may be shy or even scared of getting turned down. Do you have a guy friend who seems to have “more than friends” on his mind? Is he into you?
It’s not easy to know if a guy’s into you or just being really friendly. But if you know the signs that really matter, it’ll help you find out for yourself if a guy is into you and help you make the next move.
# He treats you like a lady when you’re out together
When just the two of you go out or hang out for a while, does he behave like you’re his girlfriend? Does he pull a chair back for you, offer to get you things, or does he insist of paying for you even when all friends generally go dutch?
If a friend does this, there’s also a good chance that he’s just being a chivalrous guy. But watch out for his behavior with other girls. Does he treat them the same way or is it just you that gets the special attention?
# He uses any excuse to touch youIf a guy’s into you, he’s obviously going to be infatuated by you. And infatuation also does involve a lot of sexual attraction. He may not make it obvious or give away any signs, but he’d try to touch you whenever he can, be it while crossing the street or the lingering touch while hugging you goodbye.
Ever felt like he lingers his touch when you clasp his hand or when he places his arm around your waist or on your back? That’s a good sign that he’s into you.
# He flirts with you
If a guy is into you, he can’t help but flirt with you. Flirting comes naturally when you like someone, you really can’t help it. Do you ever find him sweet talking you or asking you personal questions while pulling your leg? If he does this in front of others and to all girls, perhaps he’s just the group jester. But if he prefers to flirt when you’re alone or if he likes flirting just with you, he’s definitely into you!
Just flirt back with him now and then and see if he takes things further. Sometimes, all a guy needs is a small affirmative nudge to get the courage to let you know he likes you!
# He never talks about any other girl
When a guy likes a girl and hasn’t told her that he likes her yet, he’d want to make it as obvious as possible without really revealing the truth directly. At the same time, just to make it extremely clear that he’s into you and no one else, he may avoid talking about any other girl he fancies when he’s around you. That way, at least he’d hope to get the message across that you’re the only girl he notices.
A great way to test this is by talking about a few girls and asking him whom he finds the prettiest. If your name pops up even when it’s not in your list, my… my… isn’t that a big crush or what?
# He wants to be with youEven when you’re hanging out with a group of friends, does this guy make his way through the crowd of people just to be around you? If he constantly chooses to be around you even when there are several other friends he can talk to, he’s obviously very interested in you.
# He likes your attention
If you’re wondering, is he into me, about a particular guy, keep an eye out for his people-pleasing behavior that’s specific to you. If a guy likes you, he’d try his best to please you. Have you ever told him he looks good in a particular attire? Does he dress the same way often when he’s around you?
If he knows about your preference in music or places to hang out, does he have the same preferences too? A guy who likes you will always try to become the perfect splitting image of the kind of guy you’d like. So is he into you? If you see that he changes his preference whenever you change your interests and hobbies, there’s a possibility that he’s trying to impress you and make you like him.