6 Signs That He is a Player

If you’re a lady analyzing this, probabilities are you’ve encountered a participant or on your relationship past. And in case you haven’t, you’re both extraordinarily lucky, or high-quality at tuning into and paying attention to your intuition.

There were a variety of instances while I’ve disregarded all of the primary pink flags I noticed very early on, handiest to land up being ghosted, or extraordinarily hurt. But on the time, I wasn’t truly privy to what I should’ve been searching out for.

Nobody merits to have that manifest to them. So, that will help you out, I’m going to proportion all of the early symptoms to appearance out for. That way, you could pass on and discover a person who's sincerely really well worth your time.

# He texts too little, or too often

When you’ve just met in a bar or on a dating site, does he keep on blowing up your phone with constant messages back and forth the entire day? Or does he seem keen at first, and then slowly check out and take longer and longer to reply to your messages?

I remember one time a guy literally didn’t text me back for two months. And instead of deleting the message and blocking his number, I foolishly made excuses for him and replied. To top it all off, I never heard from him again.

# He avoids answering a question you’ve asked him

Have you asked him a question before, and he has either smoothly changed the subject, or point blank said he won’t answer? Both are signs that he has difficulty being honest, and that he has things he’s not proud of that he wants to hide = PLAYER.

# He invites you to his place after your first date

This is a clear sign he’s only interested in hook ups, and there’s a good chance he’s having lots of them right now, or is used to this approach working for him in the past. If you’re only looking for fun, then that might suit you just fine. But, if you’re looking for something serious, and he invites you back to his place when you barely know each other, it’s a huge red flag that he’s not ready to commit to one person in a relationship.

# You don’t know where you stand with him

Most of the ambiguity around this is the result of feeling like you just can’t ask him where you stand. Which would be the obvious, sensible thing to do, right?

But we don’t. Because we don’t want to seem too keen and scare him away. We want to come across as the cool chick who’s happy not putting labels on things.

# He’s really hot, and then he’s cold as ice

One moment he’s asking you how many kids you think you’ll have together, and where you want to get married; and the next he’s got so much on at work, and he just needs some time to figure things out. If he’s not ALL in, then tell him to get out. Your time is far too precious to waste on someone who doesn’t know what they want, and isn’t prepared to be honest about it.

# He tells you white lies

It might start with adding a few years to his age, or embellishing what he does for work, or playing down how many women he’s slept with.That’s how it starts, which isn’t great, and let me tell you the ending is ugly. If he’s prepared to lie this early on, how can you ever trust him? It’s the guys who tell white lies, who end up cheating, ghosting, and living complete double lives.