6 Signs You Love Him Like Crazy

Your mind is filled with only one thing, and that is him. You are trying too hard to please him and make him happy. Your morning starts with his thoughts and ends with it as well. Sounds sweet? No, it doesn't, it's rather scary. If you're a woman who loves your man so much it hurts, have you ever wondered if your actions might suffocate him? You are obsessed with him, and to be frank, that obsession has nothing to do with love. But, don't worry and start thinking of yourself as some crazy or psycho lover. No, dear, you are not crazy either. There are a few reasons why you might be a little too in love with your guy. One of the major reasons behind your obsession with your love is that you were never in love before. You have so much of love in you, and you want to shower all those love on your boyfriend. Your intentions are good, but the way you are handling your relationship is not acceptable. If you possess this kind of love for your boyfriend, then it is a concern. But believe me you are not the first person to be in this situation and you definitely won't be the last one either.

# So much of love in the air

Love is the most beautiful yet complicated feeling one can have. If both of you are investing the same amount of emotion and feelings for each other, then it is beautiful, but, on the other hand, if one of you feels drained by taking care of the other, then your love needs a second thought. It is important that both the partners take care of each other and love each other without making it obvious. Girl, if you are overdoing things, then stop right away.

If he is not feeling happy or maybe he is all grumpy and uncommunicative then let him be. He is an adult; he knows how to fix things. Your love cannot be the solution of every problem of his. Whenever you see him sad or worried about something, you run towards the kitchen to prepare his favorite meal. Yes, that might help, but if you are not responsible for his woes, then let him handle on his own.

You shouldn’t go around doing stuff to boost his ego or make him feel happy. He is not your kid, he is your partner. You must be thinking that would be rude if you leave him all alone with his worries. You should try and cheer him up because you love him so much. Yes, that would help once or twice, but if you turn it into a ritual, then girl you are actually stepping into the shoes of his mother. If you want to show him the motherly love, then be his guest, but if you want him to consider you as the goddess of love, then you must stop nurturing him like a baby.

# You are giving away so much

Are you the one who is always giving away things? No, it is not bad to shower your love with gifts, but in your relationship, if you are the one who is always the giver, then it is not a good sign. Relationships sustain when the emotions are mutual. So, if you are surprising him with gifts, then he should also reciprocate and show you how much he loves you. How can he accept your gift without returning the favor,if he claims to be in so much of love with you? These gifts can be small or big, but the fact is that the gifts should be exchanged between people who are in love.

Sometimes men take advantage of this emotion and will leave you empty by the end of it. It is not only about giving gifts; rather it is also about giving away emotionally, physically, and spiritually as well. You cannot say he loves you so much that he is completely dependent on you in every aspect of life. No, he is not. He is actually sucking away all you have to give and one day when he finds out that you have been drained out, he will smoothly move on to someone else. So, put an end to this.

# Loving him more than he deserves

We have been trained since ages to believe that men are superior to women. But, we all know that the statement doesn’t have an ounce of truth to it. Still, some women love to think that way. They will do everything possible to make their man believe that they are the decision makers of the home, even when their decisions are wrong. This is not love, my dear. By doing so, the girls are actually degrading themselves and hurting their self-respect. So, don’t do this to yourself, try to love yourself. You can decide for things that you are good at and let him decide on things that he is good at. When you are standing equal, then only you will have a smooth ride in your love relationship.

# He loves to play with your heart

It is never a good idea to let anybody play with your heart. If he loves to do so, then get a hold of yourself and show him the door. You might like the way you are being victimized, but girl it is doing you no good. If you think that by allowing him to do so he will love you or stick with you, then you are wrong.It is not love, it is more like abuse. He doesn’t love you or care for you; instead, he is just using you. He is a creep and he must be shown his place. Don’t cry over him. You deserve better because you are one of the few girls who know how to give love.

# So much of attention bestowed on your love

We all know attention is important in love, but not at the cost of your own time. If you are giving him away so much of attention that you are not left with any, for your own, then it is high time that you bid goodbye to your love. Don’t hurt yourself or your friend’s feelings, then you need to rethink your love for him. If you don’t love yourself, then who is going to love you? Your friends are your rewards in life and don’t take them for granted. In order to show your love towards your partner, you cannot hurt your own friends.

Compromising your ‘me’ time to make time for your partner is simply unacceptable. You must be thinking that your guy will miss you or will be hurt if you are not around all the time, but get a life lady. Really! Do you think so? Then, you are far from reality. Your guy would love to have some space of his own. Moreover, your friends are the ones who loves you and are always there to advise you when the thing is not running smoothly. Then, why would you be rude towards them when you are around the love of your life.

# Hold your love accountable

Don’t you think that the person you love should be held accountable when he is doing something wrong? Why is he going around guilt-free after hurting you? He should be answerable to you for his rude behavior. If he has hurt you, then he should mend things with you and make you feel that it won’t be repeated in future. There are times when we think that our guy has the right to hurt us physically and emotionally when we are in love. But, that should not be the case. If you don’t hold him accountable for making you cry, then most likely he is going to repeat the same mistake and will make you cry again.

Punishments are one form of love and trust me it can be the sweetest form of love too. It depends on how you handle the situation. You can make him realize how grave his act was and how hurt you were with his act by punishing him accordingly. Physical or emotional abuse can be detrimental to your relationship and you must cut it out in the beginning only if you want a relationship filled with love.