I have always loved the song by Kanye West, Heartless. To me, that song was the epitome of being used, abused, and left behind. It has always remained a mystery how someone can be heartless, truly, never feeling for someone. If you want to learn how to become heartless, then learn the art of selfishness and caring about only yourself.
In true essence, you have to lose your sense of empathy. When it comes to a relationship, that is the hardest thing you can. Not many of us can just stop caring about someone, especially for the one we love.
# Not Caring For other Perosn Cry
Nodbody can sit in front of another human and watch them cry and not feel sorry for them at all. And not feel to step in and help them as well. Heartless people don't care if you are sobbing silently or in an all-out bawl, your tears will just be wasted on them.
# No Benefit, No Relation
Heartless people feel no loyalty or connection to the people around them or that they are in a relationship with. If you fail to serve their purpose or do not benefit them, which is giving them something, providing them a service, or taking care of their needs, then you are so yesterday.
# Your things are Mine, But Mine things are only MineThe heart of any heartless person is only selfishness. They have no interest in sharing their stuff and bleed you dry if they can before they would put out a cent of their own money for, or on, you.
# They Always Have Other OptionsTo the people who are heartless, a love interest is just one in a million. There is nothing special that you possess according to them, because you can't grab hold of their heart strings, they don’t have any.
# You are Only Means To My Ends
People are nothing but mere objects to heartless people. Everyone in their life serves a specific purpose to them and is a vector to getting what they want. The only time they are nice is when they want something from you for their own benefit. Once you are all used up by them, they couldn’t be bothered looking down at your body lying in the gutter.
# Any Bad Event To you Wont Affect ThemEven if you are upset with something, or done with them, if they call and they need you, the empathy most people carry would be enough to help in a pinch. At a minimum, a normal person calls the proper authorities to help them out. If you call a heartless person when in trouble, you better get running away, because there ain't no one coming to help.