As a girl that uses online dating regularly, I have a lot to say if you’re looking to know how to get a girl to like you online.It seems to me that a downfall a lot of guys have online, is a lack of transparency.
I am not sure if it has to do with the fact that online communication subtracts the emotion and body language from the equation or if it has more to do with trying too hard, but I can definitely offer you some advice on how to get a girl to like you online so you can meet and impress her in person.
Even with online dating being safer than it once was, women will always be hesitant to meet you in person. If you want her to feel comfortable meeting you, don’t push. Let things grow naturally and when it is time, you’ll meet. I cannot tell you how many guys have immediately turned me off by asking me to meet after a quick what do you do for a living exchange.
# Write a bio
Before even talking to a girl online, you can get her to start liking you just by offering an informational profile. Instead of just writing your job, age, and that you like to travel include something specific to you.
Include something that makes you stand out. Talk about your dream vacation or your obsession with Harry Potter. These small things make you stand out and will catch someone’s eye.
# Use accurate and clear photosWhether you are happy with your looks or not, if you plan on meeting someone, they will see what you look like eventually anyway so you might as well be honest about it from the get-go.
Post photos that are well-lit, recent, and not blocked by hats and sunglasses. If you post photos showing off your true-self, she will see confidence right off the bat.
# Talk about something you care aboutInstead of commenting on the weather or the basics, discuss something you care about. Talk about your passion for fixing up old cars or your obsession with animals or recycling.
You might think she’ll be bored, but even online, she will be able to feel the passion in your words. Talking about something you care about shows a side that is attractive and she will be more inclined to open up to you about her cares too.
# Don’t try too hardLike I said earlier, you want to put your best foot forward, but that foot should be yours. Think of it as a job interview. You want to show off your best assets, but you still need to radiate genuine and honest, or you could end up with a job you have no clue how to do.
So, go ahead and talk about your accomplishments, but try to keep it humble.
# InteractThis is a huge issue I have seen with guys online. When you haven’t met yet, you really need to see the conversation flowing. I don’t mean you need to talk all day, but try not to just ghost for hours or days at a time.
Creating an online relationship that you hope will become a real one requires momentum. She will appreciate you reaching out after one conversation dies down.
# Open upIt can be hard to open up to someone you have never met, but try to talk about things beyond the surface. You can get your jobs and sibling’s names out of the way but then talk about something deep.
If she feels your walls coming down, hers will too. Women love to see a guy opening up and not afraid to share the deep stuff.