Remember the first time you had a kiss with a guy for the first time?You obviously had a hard time trying to work the right way to do it in your head.But as soon as you approached that inevitable moment, you realized that it’s as natural, easy, and simple as breathing.
All you need to do is take things slow and easy and wait for both your lips to start moving against each other’s until they reach the perfect synchrony.As complicated as it may seem at first, it’s just as easy once you lock your lips.When you have to kiss a guy for the first time, the first few seconds is always tricky.
You may have kissed a lot of guys.But you’ve never really kissed this guy before.Both of you have your own kissing styles and approaches, and it’s easy to turn a perfect opportunity into a confusion of sorts.
# Come close to him
Yes, this is easy. All you need to do is come close. Don’t crane your neck out to kiss him from some distance. It’s not comfortable and you really can’t enjoy a perfect first kiss.
The closer you are to him, the more both of you will enjoy the kiss and the more the chances are of you getting to arouse him discreetly.
# Let him take the leadKiss him, but let the guy take the lead. Unless you’re dating a first-time kisser, touch your lips to his softly and wait while he applies some pressure on your lips with his.
Don’t purse your lips or pucker up, it’ll stiffen your lips which will make him feel like he’s kissing a wall. Keep your lips soft and slightly parted. It’ll feel softer, delicate, and easily accessible.
# Keep it short, silly
The first kiss is the ice breaker, but it’s never more than that unless both of you are horny or extremely turned on. If it’s a romantic moment where there’s a lot of love or infatuation in the air, take it slow.
If you want to create a memorable kiss, the first kiss should preferably be a small soft graze of both your lips that lasts for a second or two. Part your lips after this first kiss, look into his eyes, and follow this first little kiss with a few more soft kisses.
# Each kissing style is unique
Don’t force the kiss or jump right into it even if you’re worried that the kiss won’t last long. It might turn out to be a bad experience. Take it slow and learn from each other.
As both of you softly kiss each other a few times, both of you can slowly see how either of you move while kissing and follow each other’s cues to create a perfect new kissing style.
# Part your lipsAfter a few soft grazes of your lips with his, linger your lips on his for a few more seconds each time. And along the way, part your upper and lower lips just a bit so you let him know it’s alright to use a bit of tongue when he’s ready.
# Placing your handsWhen you start kissing him, slowly move your hand and place it on the sides of his shoulder, or just under his arm. It’s an intimate move that’ll bring both of you closer. And by doing this, you’re getting closer and letting him know that it’s alright for him to touch you back.
By placing your hand on his shoulder or under his arm, you’ll give him enough space to comfortably move his hands against your face while kissing you.