6 Ways To Get Your Crush To Ask You Out

There are a lot of reasons you might get too nervous to ask your crush out. You might be afraid of rejection. The moment itself may frighten you. Or you could be worried you’ll stumble over your words. But what if you could flip it, and learn how to get your crush to ask you out instead?!

Firstly, well, I get it. I’ve been there myself. Once I even got a friend to get a guy’s number for me so I could ask him out via text instead of just walking up to him. We all know how it feels.

But, if you don’t want to take that dive into the deep end, you’re in luck. Instead of asking out your crush, you can learn how to get your crush to ask you out.

# Make sure they know you’re available

If someone wants to ask you out, one major reason they won’t is that they don’t know if you’re available. So, if you want your crush to know you are single and ready to mingle, just say so.

You don’t want to just walk up to them and say “I’m single,” because at that point you might as well just ask them out. Instead, mention how it has been forever since you’ve been on a good date. Subtle hints are the way to go.

# Let them know what you like to do

If you do all the heavy lifting subtly, your crush will only have one question to ask when the time to ask you outcomes. So, let them know what you’d like to do on a date.

Tell them about a new release you’ve been wanting to see, a fusion restaurant you want to try, or even a museum or hiking trail you’re interested in. This will plant the seed for date ideas.

# Hint that you like them

Another reason people hesitate asking someone out is the fear of rejection. It is probably one of the reasons you don’t want to do it. So, let them know that you wouldn’t reject them.

# Include them in group activities

If you don’t want to ask them out on a date, ask them to do group activities that give you more time to spend together. Say you invite your crush to a bowling game but spend most of your time together. They will see where your attention lies.

# Use your body language

Body language is the strong, silent way to get your crush to ask you out. By crossing your legs towards them, making eye contact, rubbing their arm when they make you laugh, you aren’t saying anything but also saying everything all at once.

# Flirt

Flirting is an ideal way to hint that you’re interested without being too obvious. Because flirting can be friendly or more, they may not read between the lines but they will get the picture.

Joke with them, tease them a bit, and show off your best assets.