Do you want to make him want you? Whether it’s to make him like you or lust for you, here’s your guide on how to seduce a man who isn’t your man yet.
Here’s a heads up you need, we literally have everything you need to know about seduction right here. So sit back for the next 10 minutes or more, and take in all of these tips and moves. And prepare to transform yourself into a real seductress by the time you reach the end of this feature! If you want to understand how to seduce a man, especially if he’s not your own boyfriend, use these tips to do just that. It’s subtle, devilishly innocent and he can never ever blame you for seducing him.
After all, by using these steps on seducing a guy, you’ll make him believe that he’s actually the one who desires you.
# Work your eye contactIt doesn’t matter where you are, or who you’re with. When you learn how to use eye contact, you can get any guy, anywhere in the room, to constantly sneak glances at you like he doesn’t have a choice.
Now you don’t want him to think you’re attracted to him, so don’t overdo the little staring game. Look and him and lock eyes for a second, but always look away just as quickly. By doing that, he’ll never be sure if you’re even staring at him or are interested in him. And yet, he’d start to get more and more curious about you. Use these eye contact flirting moves to make sure you’re doing this right.
# Let him see your best sideDo you think you’re sexy? No? Start by believing in yourself. If you want to become a seductress of all things human, you need to feel like one. And when you do, you’ll be able to perfect these moves and put it to maximum use.
You need to know this, it’s not the most physically attractive girl in the room who can arouse every guy. It’s the girl who oozes sexuality and confidence who does that.
Feel great about yourself, fall in love with who you are. You can fake it for a while, but unless you absolutely love who you are, inside and outside, your insecurities will show and you’ll lose just a bit of edge in your aura of seductiveness. You need to be confident and love yourself. This is the only way you get the respect and recognition you deserve.
# Don’t think about the futureWhen you start fantasizing about your future together with a guy you intend to seduce, that’s when trouble starts. Dreaming up your future with him is going to throw you off your game, and you’ll also ignore red flags. Be present in the moment and focus on your interactions with him. No future thoughts, okay?
# Pay attention to things beyond looksEveryone thinks seduction is about looking hot and sexy. But if you want to know how to seduce a guy, you need to remember that attractiveness is subjective, and that’s why confidence is so important. But seduction is also about the vibe you give to other people. What kind of person are you? Fun? Mysterious? Know what your vibe is and use it to your advantage.
# You’re not competing against othersIf you really want to seduce a man, you need to be able to walk into the room thinking you’re the hottest one in it. I’m serious. Confidence is the sexiest accessory on a woman or man. Seduction is about highlighting the sexiest and most seductive parts of you. You’re not competing against other women; you’re loving every inch of yourself and letting everyone know it.
# But pay attention to your looks and assets too!As much as seducing a guy is a mind game, your physical traits can give you an edge in making a guy desire you, at least from afar.
Do you think your boobs are a flattering asset? Your booty? Hair? Your legs? Or is it your hip to waist ratio? Whatever you love about yourself physically, use it and accentuate it. If there’s anything that makes you feel sexy, use it to your advantage. Let a man admire you from afar, and you’ve got a head start to seducing him already!