Basically, when it’s been a while since you last had sex, it’s normal to feel a little frustrated about it. You want to have sex, but the opportunities aren’t coming your way. You start to wonder why, and you might even start to question whether you’re just not attractive or not.
Sexual frustration can also cause a person to appear agitated, distracted, and completely focused on just one thing. It sounds crazy, but if you’ve ever been through a dry spell, you’ll no doubt know what it feels like!
Many guys become worried about these dry spells which worsens the way they may act. They’re so focused on getting laid and feeling better about themselves that it’s all they can think about. That’s not ideal if you’re on a date with someone and you’re trying to get to know them. It’s not that they’re not a great person, they’re just exhibiting the signs a man is sexually frustrated and it’s not giving you a chance to get to know him properly.
Of course, once his dry spell is over, all of that goes away. But, you shouldn’t be the one to have to end it, just to see him for who he really is! It’s worth pointing out that not all man can only think about one thing during a dry spell, but it’s a truth for many.
# He gets a little too excited when you use emojis
Especially the eggplant one, come on ladies, you know that one isn’t about vegetables. If you text with this guy and use emojis, like you usually do, but he’s really going wild on them, well, it’s a little too eager, no? Men don’t usually use smiley faces, but if he’s using every emoji in the book, he wants in those pants.
# After a date, he wants to see you the next date
You may really like him or vice versa, but usually, you give a couple days in between your first date and the next one. You may text over those days and then agree to see each other again.
But if he pushes to see you the day after your date for a movie, well, he’s sexually frustrated and thinks he has this in the bag.
# He always tries to turn a text conversation into a sexting conversationSexting is fun and when you’re both really into it, you can really go wild with your imagination. But, if he’s always trying to sext with you, then that’s a little bit of a red flag. I mean, calm down. It’s clear that you want to have sex with him. But he’s sexually frustrated. If you’re wondering how to tell if a guy is sexually frustrated, you’ll see that he pushes for more and more.
# How to tell if a man is sexually frustrated? He’s pushy and it’s obviousAnd he’s pushy for a reason. If a guy is sexually active, even if he really likes you, he’s going to play it cool because he’s been sexually taken care of. But if he hasn’t had sex in a while, he’ll push to see you more often. Asking you out for more and more dates, preferably at his place or yours.
# He’s quiet about his dating lifeThat’s because he literally doesn’t have one. It’s not his fault or maybe it is, you’ll find out soon, trust me. It’s normal for men to have had previous relationships, casual sex, and one-night stands.
Now, he’s not going to go into detail but he’ll bring up relationships and that he’s been “casually seeing people.” If he doesn’t, that’s on of the signs a man is sexually frustrated too.
# He overreacts about small thingsNow he could just have a temper or he’s so sexually frustrated that everything pisses him off because no matter how hard he tries he can’t get laid. Both are highly possible, so you’ll just need to sit on it and see. But if he’s unreasonably defensive or emotional, it could just be that he’s not having an easy time in the women department.