Now, before we jump into the signs he thinks he’s losing you, let me start by saying that I don’t know your relationship with your partner. Sometimes, we try to get our partner’s attention by pulling back from the relationship in hopes of them seeing what they’re going to lose. Sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesn’t.
When we pull back, we come up with all sorts of tactics and tricks to let our partners get the wake-up call we think they need. I get it. I’ve done it before. But, you know what, it didn’t work for me.
If you’re trying to get your partner to see what they’ve taken for granted, the best way to do that is by moving on.
# You don’t reply quickly to his textsYou used to reply right away to his texts and phone calls, but now, it’s radio silence from you.
# You’ve been spending more time with your friendsYou used to give him a lot of your free time, but you’ve decided to invest that time into other relationships. And those relationships are clearly more important than him. And he’s sees that, and he responds by assuming it’s one of the signs he thinks he’s losing you.
# You stopped liking his social media
You used to creep his social media, check what he’s doing, like every post and story. But that’s come to a stop. It looks like you’re no longer interested in what he’s doing with his time.
# You asked for spaceIf you’ve told him you need space, well, that’s a huge sign that tells him he’s losing you. We all know what space means, and when someone tells you that, you know it’s not going to end well.
# You’re suddenly busierYou used to make time for him, but now he realizes you’re busier than ever. And you’ll start noticing the signs he thinks he’s losing you. Nothing has really changed in your life; instead, you’re giving your free time to friends, family, and hobbies.
# There’s no more sexWhen you stop having sex with someone, that’s a clear sign something is going on. Intimacy is a huge part of a relationship, and when you stop that, you’re sending a message that you’re no longer interested.
# Your plans no longer include himYou used to make plans with him for the future, but those plans have changed. Now, it’s about you and your friends making plans, whether it’s traveling or taking up a new hobby. Either way, he’s not included.