7 Early Signs He Just Wants Intimacy and Nothing More

Some guys are garbage people. They draw you in and make you think they’ll be the best guy in your life only to leave you crying on the floor because he really just wanted sex. It’s unfortunate, but it’s the reality sometimes. But you can avoid it if you’re aware of the signs he just wants sex.

Thankfully, some guys make it very clear they’re only using you. What’s hard is if you get attached and then try to tell yourself he’s different. That he’d never do that to you because you care so much about him. It’s hard, but sometimes you have to admit the truth.

# He doesn’t seem very interested right away

When you initially met, how interested did he really seem? This is important because a guy who likes you immediately and tries to be engaged with you is someone who wants more than sex. If he seemed uninterested until you got flirty, he may just want sex.

# The first time you talked, it was all surface deep

You didn’t really discuss anything of value because he probably didn’t care to. To him, the most important thing about you was probably the color of your underwear.

# He mentions your looks over your personality and other qualities

Whenever he compliments you, it’s never about how funny you are or how smart you are. It’s always about how hot you are or how great you look naked. These aren’t the compliments of someone who wants you for more than your body.

# Your conversations somehow always end up on sex

Everything ends up turning dirty and naughty. You can be having a great conversation about your day and what you did but he’ll always turn it sexual. Even if you try to get things back on track, he’ll distract you with sex-talk and you’ll end up sexting.

# He only texts first late at night or when he wants to hook up

Basically, you’re pulling the weight in the relationship until it comes to sex. Then he’s usually the first to initiate any discussions about it or even hookups. This is one of the biggest signs he just wants sex that you have to look out for.

# He never asks serious questions about you

Whenever you talk, it’s always the same old stuff. He doesn’t really make an effort to get to know you past what you look like naked. You feel as though he probably doesn’t even know you at all.

# He’s never mentioned anything relationship-related

He’s never made you think you’re in one and he’s never brought up being in one. A guy who actually likes you and wants to be with you will definitely at least talk about relationships. If this guy doesn’t, he could just be using you.