The negativity associated with slutty girls comes into play with societal norms. It’s perfectly acceptable—even celebrated—when men have multiple sexual partners, but it’s a huge no-no for women because we have to be these clean, proper, pristine beings that other girls can look up to.
The only reason this term is still used as a slur is that women who are chase are viewed as clean, deserving, and have the ability to control themselves and their urges. A woman who isn’t slutty could never lure in a man and make him cheat *ROLLS EYES*
Society is still uncomfortable with women discussing sex, having sex, and enjoying sex. Sex is meant to be something women give to a deserving man. This is why a woman who posts a photo in lingerie is seen as immoral, but it is fine when men watch porn or go to strip clubs. It isn;t okay for a woman to be a stripper but it is fine for a man to ogle a stripper. Make sense… NOT.
It is okay for men to view women as sexual beings but not for women to enjoy their own sexuality. Only recently did The Bachelorette franchise start casting women who admitted to enjoying sex and having sex with their finalists. There is nothing wrong with wanting to share that with someone you could be engaged to in a matter of days, yet it was still so taboo until recent years.
Women who share their favorite vibrators with their audience online and talk about enjoying sex outside of committed relationships, are still accused of being irresponsible or bad role models. Why? Becuase they don’t promote shame around sex?
# You should always be yourselfSlutty girls are 100% themselves and never try to be anyone that they’re not. They do what they want and sleep with who they want because that’s who they are, and they like who they are.
This lesson is a really powerful one to be learned because many people are living their lives trying to be someone else. They spend so much time following someone else’s path rather than paving their own. Slutty girls pave their own paths and teach us that we should too.
# Stop caring what other people thinkWhile you’re clearing your own path in life, you should just not care what anyone else thinks—ever. Do you think slutty girls walk around super self-consciously because they are worried about what other people are saying?
If they really cared what other people thought, then they probably stop being slutty. But, why do that if they enjoy their life the way it is? They don’t care what people have to whisper behind their backs.
# Enjoy the savingsHooking up is completely free. I mean, aside from the lingerie and hotel rooms, if that’s your vibe. Getting naked and going to Pound Town doesn’t cost a dime. She enjoys herself and lets go without worry or stress
# Have funIf there’s one thing you can never deny slutty girls are good at, it’s knowing how to have a GREAT time. I’m not just talking about letting loose as in unbuttoning your pants. I’m talking about letting go of the little things holding you back and really enjoying the free time you have. Don’t take life so seriously or you lose sight of how to have fun.
A slutty girl isn’t held back by shame, guilt, or fear of what others think. She goes out and has fun how she wants to.
# Be strong
There will always be someone out there who doesn’t like you or has a few choice words to say about you. In the case of slutty girls, there are loads of people obviously calling them nasty names.
But do they care? Do they give them a second thought? No. Slutty girls are REALLY strong when it comes to their emotions, and they can teach us all that we should hold our heads high and ignore those who try to tear us down.
# You should be confidentLove your body. Being able to make love or bone or whatever you want to call it, takes confidence. To be seen by others in a vulnerable state, can be be nerveracking.
But slutty girls own their bodies. They love their curves, cellulite, stretch marks, flat chests and whatever other things society tells them isn’t beautiful. They know they are worthy of enjoying themselves.
How do you think slutty girls manage to find themselves all of these attractive male suitors? By being confident! When you’re confident, you can do almost anything you set your mind to and attract almost anyone. Confidence is key to happiness in your life, and slutty girls are a great example of this.
# Embrace your sexuality
After all, sex is one of the three top pleasures a human experiences. So why do we deprive ourselves of enjoying such a pleasure just because we’re scared of a word? Sex is NATURAL. Sex is human.
Sluts are called such because they know how to embrace their sexuality while other people shy away from it, afraid of what it might do or mean. Well, take a lesson from slutty girls and let yourself be sexual. It’s only natural… and fun. Women are sexual beings and there is nothing wrong with that.