7 Signs Your Boss Wants To Sleep With You

I had a couple of jobs in my time. However, most of my bosses were heterosexual women, so, I didn’t encounter any awkward moments in the hallway or have them uncomfortably leaning over me. So, I didn’t really know the signs your boss wants to sleep with you at that time.

But then I worked as a receptionist at a car dealership at 19. Honestly, I didn’t encounter anything prior, but I felt this vibe whenever he came around. There was something strange in the way he acted towards me. Even though I thought something was weird, I ignored it and continued working.

You have a lot of private meetings. And yet, you’re still not sure why you have them. Of course, an occasional meeting with your boss is normal, but if he asks you to a private meeting when really there’s no need, he’s into you.

Depending on how you feel about your boss, these private meetings can be uncomfortable and feel like you’re being cornered. Too many private meetings mean they want to see how they can go from professional into personal encounters.

# They treat you differently

Compared to all the other employees, they treat you differently. Of course, they treat you differently, they want to sleep with you. Maybe they promote you even though you’re relatively new to the job, or provide you with extras when you don’t actually deserve them. You can run with this for a while, but if the other employees see this, they aren’t going to be happy.

# Your boss flirts with you

Now, flirting is a huge sign of someone’s interest. Now, this doesn’t mean they’ll do anything. However, flirting is meant to build up sexual tension between two people. Yes, crack jokes at the office, but there’s a difference between regular jokes and flirtatious jokes.

# Your boss tells you about their personal life

Maybe your boss told you they left their partner or about a wild weekend at the bar. Either way, this is overstepping the working relationship you share. If your boss talks about their personal life to you, specifically in the area of dating and sex, well, this is a clear sign they’re gauging your reaction.

# You get gifts

They may not be huge gifts, it could be a pen or a notebook, but the point is, they’re gifts. Unless it’s Christmas, your birthday, or another special occasion, it’s not normal for the people you work with to get you gifts, especially your boss. Now, if your boss tells you not to tell other people about the gift, it’s clear they’re into you. Kinda sleazy, in my opinion.

# They get a little too close

Your boss wants to see what you’ve done, so they lean on your desk, staring at the screen. Now, this happens and it doesn’t mean it’s sexual. Usually this is a sign they want to be closer to you. They may touch you, graze your arm, or speak into your ear. The point is, these invade your personal space. If they enter your personal space, it’s a solid sign they want more.

# You spend time together outside of the office

Now, it’s normal for co-workers to grab lunch or a coffee together. It’s not as common for bosses to hang out with their employees outside of work time. If your boss enters into your personal time outside of the office, it’s clear they’re interested in something more than just work.