7 Signs Your Boyfriend is Falling For You

Oh, well, this is awkward. There have been moments when I introduced my friend to a guy I was seeing, and suddenly, I noticed some chemistry between them. The good thing is, I wasn’t too attached to the guy, but have you seen signs your boyfriend is falling for your friend and been worried?

I was able to make the decision of whether or not I wanted to continue seeing him. Obviously, I didn’t continue the relationship. If he can flirt with my friend in front of my face, then there’s no way he was genuinely interested in me.

But, I couldn’t imagine how it would feel to see your boyfriend, someone you really like, fall for your friend. It’s not an easy thing to witness. To be honest, there’s not much you can actually do about it.

# He flirts with her in front of you

Well, let me just say, first of all, this isn’t cool. Your boyfriend should never be flirting with another woman in front of you. If that happens, it shows he doesn’t respect you. Would you flirt with another guy in front of him? Exactly, there’s your answer. If he’s flirting with your friend in front of you, it’s clear he has feelings for her or is at least excited by her.

# You feel there’s something going on

When you hang out with them, you just know there’s something going on. You can feel it, but it’s hard to explain. If your gut instinct is telling you there’s something sexual going on between your boyfriend and friend, listen to your gut.

# He’s excited when you bring her up

Maybe you’re inviting her over for dinner or just updating him on information about her, but he’s oddly interested when you talk about her. One of the more obvious signs your boyfriend is falling for your friend is his curiosity about her and her life. He asks questions, but there’s just something about the way he asks that makes you feel something is going on.

# Your friend doesn’t talk to you as much

Aside from them flirting with each other, and other signs from this list, you’ve also noticed your friend take a step back from your relationship with her. Either it can be she’s feeling uncomfortable with his behavior and is trying to avoid him, or she’s feeling guilty because she’s also into your boyfriend.

# He routinely asks about her

My boyfriend will ask me about a friend of mine when he knows there’s some drama, etc. But, he won’t be asking about my friend all the time. If your boyfriend is constantly asking you about one friend in particular, that’s something you should be aware of.

# He’s all over her social media

It’s normal to follow our partner’s friends on social media; it’s almost offensive not to follow them. Don’t ask me about the rules of social media. But your boyfriend is always commenting and liking her photos. Come on, that’s a little odd, don’t you think?

# They text each other a lot

Listen, you may text your boyfriend’s friends to arrange a hangout, etc. But you’re not spending hours a day texting them. If your boyfriend is texting your friend quite a lot, that’s a red flag. Why do they need to text each other all the time? What’s going on? Perhaps it’s time for a chat with your boyfriend and friend.