Missing someone is very special. A lot of times, it can even be a really important factor in a serious relationship. Meaning, you should both miss each other when you’re gone. But it can be really hard to tell if your boyfriend actually misses you or if he’s just playing the part. For that, you’ll want to know the signs he secretly misses you.
Guys tend to hide their feelings. This is especially true when it comes to missing their significant others. They don’t want to break down and admit that they wish you were there. Some men do but if your man is the secretive type, it can be nearly impossible to tell.
When a guy you like misses you, it feels good to know it. It reassures you that he still cares and thinks of you often. And most importantly, the fact that he misses you means he really wants YOU around him instead of some other girl. How can anyone not feel good knowing this truth?
# How’s he texting?This is probably one of the biggest signs he secretly misses you when you two aren’t together. How often is he texting you now? Has the frequency increased? And this is even more obvious if he isn’t one to text all day long to begin with. But since you’re not together, he’s texting you a bunch.
This is mostly because he just wants to talk to you. He wants to know what you’re up to and he wants to feel like he’s involved. All of those can help bring him some ease and make him feel better about not being by your side.
# He calls when he normally hates talking on the phoneIf you’re getting a call from your man and you know how much he doesn’t like talking on the phone, it’s a big sign he misses you. He just wants to hear your voice.
However, keep in mind that he may also just be busy and talking on the phone is a lot faster. Overall, you have to pay attention to what he says on the phone. Is he just making small talk or is he giving you quick, need-to-know information? The former proves he misses you.
# He is very curious
This doesn’t mean he is behaving curiously. Instead, he is curious about what is going on with you. He may not come out and say he misses you, but he wants to know the scoop.
He wants to know how your day was. And he wants the latest gossip with your friends and how your aunt’s surgery went. He asks about everything and remembers everything you say. Taking the time to care and think about you when you aren’t together, are signs he is missing you.
# He interacts with all your social media postsWhether you post a cute selfie or an Instagram story of your lunch, he is on it. He likes and views everything you post. He may even message you or comment about it too.
And, he will use any chance he can to start a conversation and interact because he misses you. This could be an ex trying to come back into your life or a current boo making the most of every form of communication at his disposal.
# Tags you on social mediaWe don’t mean that he tags you in #WomanCrushWednesday photos, although that is a major sign he misses you. If he tags you in memes and posts he thinks you’re interested in, he misses you.
Say he is scrolling to Twitter or Instagram, if something catches his eye and he thinks you’ll find it cute or funny or just slightly relevant, he will send it to you. This shows you are always on his mind even when he is mindlessly scrolling.
Does he tag you in funny memes? There’s really nothing that shows how much your man misses you than when he tags you in funny pictures and memes. This is especially true if they’re cute ones that remind him of you.
This is just a clear sign he totally misses you. Seeing all of those memes and immediately thinking of you shows you that his mind is already on you. He’s already thinking about you before he even sees those memes. And he definitely misses you.
# He texts you after seeing that you’ve been active online
Your
man might be relatively quiet all day until you hop on Facebook. Once
he sees you sharing and liking pictures, he’ll text you if he misses
you.
This is one of the top signs he secretly misses you purely
because he wants to be included. He knows you’re available and wants to
get in on some of the fun. So he’ll send you a text or he’ll even call
you.
# He talks about random stuff just to keep the conversation going
A
great way to know if your man misses you is to pay attention to what
he’s talking about. If he’s just rambling on and on about stuff that’s
normally pointless to both of you, he misses you.
He’ll do this
because he wants to keep the conversation going. He wants to talk to
you. That’s the whole point of basically anything he does when he misses
you. He wants to hear your voice to just chat and joke with you.