You might be wondering what kind of teasing we’re talking about. In flirting and dating terms, teasing is a way to get attention and make someone want more. In some ways, you confuse them and that confusion keeps their mind on you because you become a challenge.
As we mentioned before, you give them a glimpse of who you are, what you can offer, what you can do, but it’s not enough to satisfy them. It’s not enough to give them the answers they’re after or the effect they’re after. You pull back before that point, leaving them desperate to learn more!
Anyone can learn how to be a tease. For sure, some are naturals, but if you’re not sure how to get started, we’re going to help you out. Then, you can keep the apple of your eyes’ attention firmly on you. You’ll be mysterious, confusing, and downright alluring to them. Who knows where that may lead!
# Ask yourself what you want
Before you start teasing them, figure out what you want. Playing mind games isn’t cool. Don’t do anything until you understand what you’re looking for. Do you want something more sexual? Or are you just testing the waters and checking whether they’re into you?
# Get to know them a little firstBefore anything, you should have a decent idea of who they are as a person. That way, you can decide how you want to approach them. If not, it can get messy. Plus, if you like this person, you should know them. You don’t need to know them inside out, but don’t rush and skip this step. You need to know how they’re going to react to particular strategies – are they going to be intrigued or insulted? Will they enjoy the chase or are they likely to give up? These are things you need to work out before you start learning how to be a tease.
# What is their personality like?
It’s important to understand their personality so you can decide on how you want to approach them. There’s no one-size-fits-all method when it comes to teasing someone. So, don’t rush into teasing them right away until you have a better idea of who they are. Some people don’t like being teased while others do.
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Start by being unattainableHere’s the thing, if you want to be successful with teasing, you need to be unattainable – to a degree. They need to know right from the beginning that you’re not someone who’s easy to get. So, don’t be that available. We know you want to be available for them, but you can’t be. People want what they can’t have.
# Work on your confidenceIf you want to be a successful tease, then you’re going to need to be confident. When it comes to anything, confidence is key. You can say all the right things, but if you don’t own it, nothing will work.
# Learn how to be a tease by flirting up a storm!Without being flirtatious, this won’t go anywhere. Flirting is a necessity when it comes to getting someone’s sexual attention, or romantic attention. Flirting builds up the sexual chemistry between two people. If you don’t have flirting, then you’re just friends. In other words, you need to flirt.
# Be playfulSee, teasing isn’t about bullying this person. You’re supposed to be light and playful, creating a sexual and flirtatious atmosphere. You don’t want them to feel as if they’re being attacked. So, when you’re flirting with them, keep it light and easy.