If you’re not the best at flirting or you’ve had a few failures in the past, there’s some good news coming your way. You can use eye contact flirting to communicate your desire and cut out the stress!Yes, no more panic, no more stress, and a lot more success!
It’s the easiest and safest way to get the message across and get a sign back in no time. It’s simple, instinctive and something that all of us indulge in without even realizing it.
Basically, flirting by eye contact is safe, fun, and an easy way to find out if someone is interested in knowing you better, without the pressure of making the first move.
What do you do when you see someone you like at a coffee shop or at a party? If you’re not sure what to do, well, eye contact flirting may be the best thing in the world to help you get their attention and make an impression in no time. Just use these simple eye contact flirting tips and you’ll be able to get the right message across in no time.
# Casually glance now and thenSee someone you like? Casually glance at the person now and then. Soon enough, the one you like will notice you back.
Exchange a fleeting glimpse
Don’t be hasty or you’ll end up looking like an annoying stalker. When the person you like catches you half-staring and stares back at you with curiosity, lock eyes for a second and look away immediately.
Go back and repeat the glance
Look at the person you like again. Stare at him or her, but look away immediately as soon they look back at you. Don’t linger and stare back for more than a second just yet.
# Let them know what’s on your mind
At first, the person you like may assume it’s a passing glance. But as they catch you sneaking a few glances now and then, they’d understand that you’re interested in them.
Don’t stare for more than a second just yet because you’ll kill the excitement. Instead, build the excitement.
# Build the excitementNow that you’ve got the one you like looking back at you now and then to see if you’re still staring, it’s time to build the excitement. Stop staring for a couple of minutes. Wait for them to stare at you now and then.
We’re all curious, so the person you like will wonder why you aren’t staring anymore and may start to stare at you more often, to check if you’re still staring.
By doing this, you’re actually making the one you like as interested as you are in building the staring game!
# Reverse the eye contact flirtingLook straight ahead, and don’t face the person you’re trying to make eye contact with. But at the same time, focus on them and keep them in your line of sight.
Don’t stare directly, but keep your focus on them. Wait for that person to look at you. And just as they look at you, turn your face towards them and stare back at that person.
By doing that, you’re now discreetly making it appear like they’re the one interested in looking at you, and not the other way around!
# Stare for a longer duration
You’ve been exchanging fleeting glances until now, but now that you’ve got the one you like excitedly waiting for you to stare back, lock eyes for more than a second before looking away. [Read: How to catch your crush’s eye and grab their attention]
# Smile and blush
Talk to your friends or appear busy, and stare for a second or two. And each time, look away smiling in an obvious or awkward manner. Don’t smile at the person you’re staring at just yet. Always smile only while looking away.