8 Reasons Why He is Texting You Even if He is Not Interested

You’re going insane wondering, why is he texting me if he’s not interested. Just because he texts you doesn’t mean he wants you.

Oh, girls, I could write a book about the topic, why is he texting me if he’s not interested. When it came to dating, this was one of my most common issues. I would have amazing conversations with guys, but nothing would happen.

I would literally wait for weeks for them to ask me out, and it would never happen. So, instead, I made the first move, thinking they were scared. In reality, they had no interest in dating me.

And the excuses were endless; I don’t know what I want, I’m not ready to date, I thought we were just friends. So, all the time I invested into the relationship went down the drain.

The worst part was no one told me these guys weren’t interested in me. Not one person. Everyone would say that the guy was weird or maybe he’s shy, but the truth was he didn’t want me. It hurt to accept that truth, but on the other hand, I was able to cut guys out of my life quickly and move onto the next.

# He needs an ego boost

There are some days when you need validation, so you text someone who you know is into you. You make him feel good and look good in front of other people, so he’s happy to have you around. Does he want to be with you? No, he doesn’t. You’re a souvenir for him.

# You’re in the friend-zone

You’re in the friend-zone. I’m sorry you made it there, but it happens to the best of us. He’s super comfortable texting and talking to you on the phone, which gives you the idea that he’s into you. But, that’s where you’re wrong. He’s not, you’re his friend.

# You’re his #2

He likes you, but he doesn’t like you that much. If he did, he would have locked it down and asked you to date him. But he hasn’t, right? Right. He’ll take you out here and there, text you to keep you interested, but he has someone else on his mind. You’re his #2 not his #1.

# He’s a player

Ugh, another player. When will the madness end? Some men are experts at stringing women along and playing mind games with them. This doesn’t mean he’s not into you, but he’s definitely taking his time and has other women on his plate as well. So, he’s keeping you warm in case his other plans don’t work out.

# You’re a booty call

You may have thought you share something special, but for him, you’re his booty call. If he ignores most of your texts but will reply late at night or text you past 10 pm, then you’re his booty call. Also, pay attention to what he talks about. Are all your conversations sexual? There ya go.

# He’s not sure what he wants

This happens a lot. When a guy is indecisive, he’ll drive you nuts. You’ll constantly be asking yourself whether he likes you or not, and that’s when you know he doesn’t know what he wants. If you’re confused, then he’s confused. It’s that simple. This is also a good sign for you to end things while you’re ahead.

# You’re day-dreaming

This happens to the best of us. While the guy isn’t interested in us, we’re taking all our conversations with them and tearing them apart, looking for clues and hints that he’s interested. Listen, step out of your conversations, and show them to someone you trust. Let them help you get back into reality.

# He likes the attention you give him

He’s only human. If an attractive girl is giving him attention, he’s not going to want it to stop. He likes the conversations you have together and the attention he gets. If you flirt and compliment him, that’s enough to keep him going. It’s always nice when someone gives you attention and doesn’t ask for anything in return.