8 Signs a Female Co-Worker Likes You

The workplace is a great environment to meet new people. From those co-workers, you’ll get the chance of new friends, and if you’re a single guy, the possibility of an office romance. But it is important to really understand the signs a female co-worker likes you before making a fatal mistake.

The workplace is a hugely controlled environment where classic flirting moves that you may be able to pull off in a bar or at your college campus may not work. One misunderstood gesture towards a female co-worker may end up in either a disciplinary hearing, termination, or worse, a sexual harassment case.

# She greets you frequently more than anyone else in the office

Greeting co-workers they bump into every morning is a typical way most people start their day. However, if someone greets you more frequently and enthusiastically, it is a clear sign they have a special interest in you.

# She goes out of her way in order to “bump” into you

What’s one way to spend a little time with you before work? She doesn’t take the shorter corner to quickly get her to her desk. Instead, she goes the long way so that she passes by your cubicle to catch a glimpse of you and say good morning.

# She adjusts her break time to match yours


You suddenly notice that she keeps turning up at the employee lounge the same time as you. If you want further confirmation, adjust your break schedule again. If she turns up again then there’s a good chance she likes you.

# She sits next to you during meetings

In emptier meeting rooms people normally get a spot a little further from an occupied seat. But not this girl. She’s comfortable sitting next to you even if the whole conference room were empty.

# More than frequent invitations for lunch


You get daily lunch invitations from her and reminds you of your high school days with your best buddies. At first she invites you with a group but sooner or later she invites you out to lunch with just the two of you.

# She keeps asking you work-related questions, even if it’s not her job


A female co-worker surely likes you if she starts popping up with work-related questions that’s not her usual responsibilities. In addition, you get asked simple questions the person near her could easily answer. Instead, she chooses to ask you which is a good excuse to get to talk to you.

# She surprisingly knows your office activities

Like a classic stalker, she knows the meetings you’ve had, the places where you had your lunch, whether you’ll join the company sponsored marathon, and the conversations you had with your other co-workers.

# You receive a lot of emails or personal messages from her

Sometimes it’s annoying and sometimes endearing. She sends you a lot of email correspondence and emoticon-laden instant messages enough to breach company internal communications policy. She’s attracted to you, so she’s willing to break these rules.
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