8 Signs To Know if a Girl Likes You Over Text

You like her. But how do you know if SHE likes YOU? It seems like girls are a mystery, but there are very clear signs that a girl likes you over text if you just look for them in the right places. Do you want to know how to tell if a girl likes you over text? Just read on, and you’ll know it all in no time!

Texting is a precursor to every kind of relationship these days. If you like someone, you’re probably texting them. Are you dating someone? You’ve probably texted them before, and you’re still texting them now. These days, it is impossible for relationships to not have gone through the “texting phase” prior to actual dating.

Never fear, just like how the ladies exhibit a specific behavior during face-to-face encounters, they definitely have certain “texting behaviors” that will tell you whether they like you over text.

So, it is up to you to decipher the signs and use it to your advantage. Here are 28 of the most striking signs that a girl likes you over text.

# She initiates the conversation

If she’s the one who texts you first, even for no specific reason like just asking “what are you up to?” then there’s a good chance that she digs you.

Girls are known to prefer being texted than texting guys first, so if she makes this much effort to start communication with you, chances are that you are in her good graces. This is one of the HUGE signs that a girl likes you over text.

# She texts frequently

If you just spent the whole night texting each other, and the next day you wake up to a good morning text from her asking for more of those text conversations, she’s definitely into you. Careful though, there’s a chance she might end up being a text-clingy girlfriend if you two start dating.

# She replies immediately

For a guy, there is nothing more agonizing than waiting for your crush to reply to your text message. There are times that replies end up coming hours or days late. So when a girl replies immediately within minutes after sending a message, it’s a sure sign that she likes you.

# She texts you frequent updates

Another one of the signs that a girl likes you over text is if she says things like, “Hey, I’m getting a pedicure, what’s up?” or “Ordered Frappe at Starbucks” and other superficial information that you wouldn’t even care to know. It’s a sign that she wants your attention.

# She texts and replies immediately even if she’s busy

If she’s busy with work, school, or some other preoccupation, yet she still looks forward and maintains text conversations, it only means that she thinks you are worthy. [Read: 14 moves to text smooth with girls and get them interested]

# She writes lengthy replies with a lot of follow-ups

It’s pretty well-known that girls are chattier than men, and even more chatty to people who they like and trust. When a girl who likes you sends a text, it is usually lengthy, chock full of details, and open-ended in order to keep the conversation going. [Read: 12 clear ways to tell if she’s being flirty or just being friendly]

# She copies your texting style

This happens to all of us. If you like someone, you inevitably start using the same phrases or emojis as the other person. So if you’ve been using a phrase or a few emojis she previously wouldn’t use, and now she’s been using it all the time with you, chances are, she’s really into you.

# She’ll notice if you don’t text her or reduce your conversations

When she asks, “Hey, are you okay? You haven’t been texting lately?” that is a sure sign that she likes you. Suddenly reducing communication will not go unnoticed and will be followed up by a prying question. Trust me, this is one of the obvious signs that a girl likes you over text.