8 Signs You are Not Attracted To Your Husband

Everyone knows that attraction plays a big part in any relationship, and is usually the initial reason we end up starting a new one with someone.

Attraction doesn’t have to be purely physical. In fact, for many people, emotional attraction is just as – if not more – important. There are a huge number of factors that can make any one person attractive.

For example, someone making you laugh, being clever, sharing hobbies and interests, and being kind and compassionate are all things that might make you feel attracted to someone. And these things will be more or less important for different people.

The things that make us not attracted to someone are also interesting to think about. Being stubborn, hot-headed, unkind, selfish, lazy, unambitious the list of things we don’t look for in a potential mate is just as long.

# You think he has let himself go

If you find yourself less physically attracted to your partner because he has put on weight or doesn’t take time or care with his appearance anymore, you could find yourself feeling a little resentful. If can feel insulting if your partner stops making an effort, so this can be a sign that you are not attracted to your husband.

# You get irritated more easily by the things he says and does

Find your blood boiling at the smallest things? He tries to make a joke, and you can’t help but think ‘what an idiot?’ If you are starting to find him much more irritating than usual, you are distancing yourself from him, and focusing more on the negatives.

# You care less about making an effort around him

If you no longer care whether he finds you attractive anymore, this is a sure-fire sign you’re not attracted to your husband, and that your relationship could be in a bit of hot water. Trying to look your best and caring about your appearance is a way of showing your partner that you care about them. If neither of you bother anymore, it may be that you don’t feel as close as you used to.

# You’ve stopped nagging him

If you’ve given up on nagging him and instead just quietly seethe about how lazy/messy/bad with money he is, it shows you are no longer putting your all into the relationship – you are giving up on it because the attraction is no longer there.

# The romance is gone

Did you used to go on dates, do cute things together, and have a cuddle on the sofa every night? Now do you watch TV separated at either end in silence? If the romance is dead, it shows you aren’t making time for one another anymore.

# You don’t have sex anymore

Everyone’s sex life dwindles from time to time, but if sex is the last thing on your mind, that spark just simply isn’t there anymore.

# Things that you used to find cute now annoy you

That little snort when he laughs and his gentle snoring? The things you used to find adorable now totally rub you the wrong way!

# You don’t make time for one another

Do you feel like ships passing in the night? If you feel as though you are living separate lives, it could be that something has gone amiss – no matter how busy you are.